there’s a girl I knew who admitted to “pretending to be bi” for likes and to “please others” and she says she went as far as going on dates that led to more….. and I’m like girl, if you ate another girl out and got strap…. Idk…methinks you’re not straight…… - ThreadSky

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social • 3 days ago

there’s a girl I knew who admitted to “pretending to be bi” for likes and to “please others” and she says she went as far as going on dates that led to more….. and I’m like girl, if you ate another girl out and got strap…. Idk…methinks you’re not straight……

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threadsforyou.bsky.social•3 days ago

Just like guys who say that dude blew them but they are gay the dude is

burner9.bsky.social•3 days ago

I sometimes joke that I’m a fake bisexual because I’ve never been with a man lmao

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•3 days ago

And like, I get it… It’s hard to come out. I didn’t come out as bi until I was 29!!! And even then, even after being accepted by the people who matter, there’s still moments where there’s a strange awkward tension about it.

winniewest.bsky.social•3 days ago

I have literally never thought that being bisexual is odd. I always felt like it was normal to be bi, even more normal than being straight.

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•3 days ago

honestly I can see where the stigma comes from - and I think for her being bi felt performative (because of internalized misogyny & homophobia) and that was a turn off for her but I think she just needed to surround herself with people who worked on their own biases / were accepting

xenusparadox.bsky.social•3 days ago

Man I'm so jealous of bi/pan people

Twice as many options to be rejected by

xenusparadox.bsky.social•3 days ago

I didn't come out as atheist till I was like 38 but somehow deep down I'd always known.

pumpkincheeks.bsky.social•3 days ago

That's the same age I came out actually so very recently. I should probably mark that on my calendar before I forget it.

It just...didn't matter what gender or whatever had what I like, because they have what I like? I noticed it on myself first, then on several more men, until I just admitted it.

pumpkincheeks.bsky.social•3 days ago

Basically I like butts wayy wayy too much.

acediasirron.bsky.social•3 days ago

She's going to be staring her bride in the face saying "I do, but no homo"

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•3 days ago

and they’ll be happily strappily ever after 🥰

acediasirron.bsky.social•3 days ago

All good marriages should have a strap

ruby-soho.com•3 days ago

Lmao. She's getting good at pretending, eh ;p

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