part of healing from toxic relationships that people don’t talk much about: is when ur completely safe & okay but something triggers a reaction (like them reaching out unexpectedly, trying to see u) and suddenly it’s like ur still in that toxic relationship and your chest is heavy and start sobbing - ThreadSky

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social • 1 day ago

part of healing from toxic relationships that people don’t talk much about: is when ur completely safe & okay but something triggers a reaction (like them reaching out unexpectedly, trying to see u) and suddenly it’s like ur still in that toxic relationship and your chest is heavy and start sobbing

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mommysins.bsky.social•1 day ago

This. Completely this.

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•1 day ago

😭😣yeahhhh

mommysins.bsky.social•1 day ago

Nothing's worse then entering a new very healthy relationship and having the trigger and then internally having to acknowledge your safe but what if your the toxic one now... Happened recently and I thank GOD my partner is like "let's talk this through" 😭😭😭

xenusparadox.bsky.social•1 day ago

God I think I accidentally triggered a couple of people recently and they cut contact because they started feeling unsafe because of something I said — in each case it was something that others had been completely fine with in a similar context. And I didn't mean to but I still feel shitty for it.

medrodkay.bsky.social•1 day ago

Every time my ex reaches out it makes me want to throw my phone at the wall because of the dread

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•1 day ago

Yeahhhhh 😭

stuffonthemoon.bsky.social•1 day ago

🫂

kinkyadventures.bsky.social•1 day ago

Be strong. The short time I’ve followed you, I’ve gathered that you’re an amazing person with lots of awesome ideas on how you see the world. You’re beautiful, sexy, and lots of fun. PTSD is hard to overcome because there are a lot of triggers, but you can do it.

xenusparadox.bsky.social•1 day ago

God, or even when someone else says/does something that reminds you of them and triggers anxiety that they might be unsafe too...

hockeyfisch.bsky.social•1 day ago

Going through this now myself. You just get hit with an unexpected line in a TV show or movie and it all comes flooding right back.

ihopeimadeyousmile.bsky.social•1 day ago

healing takes time indeed, clearly it's worth it. i'm glad you're safe and that you are willing to share this. it's important to know that others have been through this. our bodies are remarkable, especially when it comes to healing. take care of yourself and thank you for sharing!

conflagration.bsky.social•1 day ago

I'm in the process of getting out of mine and I feel this deep into my soul ;-; thanks for the moment of vulnerability and sending hugs your way 💖

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•1 day ago

💕💕💕💕💕 thankyou

deffy13.bsky.social•1 day ago

Healing from any relationship takes time. It's like being on a raft in the ocean some days are smooth sailing and you can reinforce it other days are stormy but you weather it and some are like a typhoon and you have to rebuild and regather the pieces. It's a process and you'll get through this.

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•1 day ago

yeah, I know it’s not a sexy post- but hey felt like being real and vulnerable today tee hee 💔

theancientw0lf.bsky.social•1 day ago

It's all part of the healing process! Been there too, so I do know that feeling!
Be strong and hopefully everything will be safe and well again, it takes a lot of time, but it's doable 🤗

xenusparadox.bsky.social•1 day ago

Creators who show that side of themselves are always my favorite. I want to see the person, not just a body.

robotikhan.bsky.social•1 day ago

we need catharsis and empathy from others

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•1 day ago

💕💕💕

anstett.bsky.social•1 day ago

HUGS that is important.

Being real.

xyliafae.bsky.social•1 day ago

this is such a hard thing to deal with and it makes the healing process more difficult when they don’t respect your space so you can properly heal. I am sending you so much love and my messages are always always open for you 🥺🫂

xenusparadox.bsky.social•1 day ago

Ugh I went NC with a friend/mentor of 7 years after he outed himself as a narcissist and he immediately had a third party try to contact me under false pretenses. The ickiest and I wasn't even in any physical danger from him.

thesleepysuccubus.bsky.social•1 day ago

Thankyou 💕💕💕😭🥰😭

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