Does anyone else feel as if there is nowhere you belong? And as if there is no one who notices your existence? I need friends I need connection irl. Its hard to feel this way. I dont have friends and my anxiety keeps me from interacting with most people. Like I only get interactions if I start them - ThreadSky

23insideherfantasy.swifties.social • 106 days ago

Does anyone else feel as if there is nowhere you belong? And as if there is no one who notices your existence? I need friends I need connection irl. Its hard to feel this way. I dont have friends and my anxiety keeps me from interacting with most people. Like I only get interactions if I start them

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temsversion.swifties.social•106 days ago

if you ever feel like you need to talk, just know that i’m always open to chatting, regardless i’m always down to get to know oomfs and interact more <3 hope you’re okay! ily 🩵

23insideherfantasy.swifties.social•106 days ago

Thank you so much 🫶🏻 I will be unfortunately life is weighing down on me harder than usual. ily❤️

hurricanesadie.swifties.social•106 days ago

If I read your profile correctly you’re 24 I struggled a lot at your age honestly from about 9-32. When i turned 32 i just made a decision to put myself out there and try to quiet the insecurity in my head. I moved to a new city, got a new job, and joined a meetup group for people my age 🧵

hurricanesadie.swifties.social•106 days ago

i went to every meet up they had and said yes to every invite.It took patience & effort but i slowly became part of the crowd.The key is joining a community that has people looking for connection. It was 2009 so things are different now but it worked for me. just know your people are out there cont

hurricanesadie.swifties.social•106 days ago

It’s difficult finding your way but i assure you there is nothing wrong with you . Hang in there.

23insideherfantasy.swifties.social•106 days ago

Thank you for all the kind advice. I’ll definitely start looking into more community stuff. As far as moving goes that’s not an option right now unfortunately I’d love to move somewhere with a bigger population

hurricanesadie.swifties.social•106 days ago

I know it’s hard when you’re not in a position to move i was just sharing what worked for me and hopefully provide some hope that it’s not you and that many of us struggle. I’m 47 it took a long time to find my people. Just don’t give up hope it will happen eventually ❤️

johnnyboyapril.bsky.social•106 days ago

It’s important to feel like you are the one to belong to.

23insideherfantasy.swifties.social•106 days ago

I’ve never thought of it that’s way. Thank you

blink13times.bsky.social•106 days ago

girl don’t worry i totally get it. i want to say it gets better idk if it does but it certainly keeps going on life keeps happening i don’t know if i have any friends but sometimes i am happy

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