Aww,absolutely adorable bless you,I hope you're having a lovely Winter Solstice and warmest wishes for the new year blessed with peace, love and happiness to you blessed be 🎄🧚♀️❤️❄️😘
There was a while, basically 4 months right before and after my borderline diagnosis, when I didn't make people feel safe, specifically one I felt was too wonderful to not try over and over to convince her to love me. What awful memories. I'm glad I became a shut-in after that tbh. Never again.
I used to see a friend (her hubby was old army buddies with my ex) Took me years to realise I felt awful after seeing her cuz she didn’t respect boundaries, was very defensive, I always had to watch what I said. I felt obliged to keep the friendship going even after I split with my ex. No more 😤
ive been called a green flag by people before yet iv never had anyone act like that towards me its always me trying my hardest to be kind understanding and respectful but the second i set a boundry or have a panic attack i get yelled at lectured or they just leave like whats with people these days?
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Thanks for reminding me to try to be "green".🙂