Trust, I'm in the club too. I struggle understanding how to socialize, and a lot of times, it feels like I'm hitting the lever of a gambling machine wishing for some kind of good results. The most success I've had so far is interacting with people's posts.
You can find people in starter packs and interact with them if you like what they're about. I'm in this one so it must be good (it does have a bunch of good folks in it)-
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