I have business to tend to I have no desire to tend to anyone else's. I will be friendly to anyone I see because I like being a nice person.
As for my feelings about trans people. I admire the absolute courage you have to be who you are and will always be on your side.
I probably would know.
I would likely say hello and find something to compliment, clothes, shoes, bag, hair, makeup, flamboyant shine—cause I’m just that type of person and admire bravery, beauty, and kindness.
Yeah it would be weird to walk up to someone in a damned public bathroom and ask those questions just weird. Stay in your own lane mind your fxxxing business!!
I’ve been wondering about this.
How will they determine who is or isn’t allowed?
Most people you can’t even tell and it would be extremely offensive to ask, right?
Even then, how would one prove either or?
Insanity.
I care because when a predatory man is in a woman’s safe space masquerading as a trans woman, and there is no telling them apart, my business in order to keep safe is right in his damn face.
So you're not really worried about trans people, right? Just predatory men... It's ok to be worried about predatory men, but please don't confuse the issue by thinking that all trans people are predatory.
I don’t know. Can you tell the difference between a trans women and a man who is dressed as a woman? Can you identify which men are predators by looking at them? You seem to be confusing “predators” with “trans people”.
Maybe you missed the part where I said “I don’t know”. Do you? Obviously not, since tou asked the question. But you’re still confusing “predators” with “trans women”. I’d think there is some overlap, but that is true for “predators” with any other suffficiently large set of people.
Similarly, the only time when transgender restrictions on these restrooms could be actively enforced is when a lot of other people are inside the bathroom, the same mechanism by which the entry of a predator actively being predatory would itself be thwarted.
What prevents a predatory man from entering a women’s bathroom to target a solitary female anywhere, really? If the woman is alone and nobody is around, the gendered nature of the restroom isn’t going to stop them. And what about female predators? I don’t see how any of this actually makes me safer
Exactly. So why should we make it easier for them by saying you go right ahead in there and if anyone speaks up or dares to challenge you just call them transphobic.
Women’s restrooms in the U.S. consist of individual private locking stalls. If someone were trying to barge in while I was indecent, I’d have plenty of time to pull up my pants. Then it becomes as unsafe a scenario as literally being anywhere alone as a woman with a predatory man targeting you.
Having worked in multiple gay bars, I know you use whatever damn bathroom/stall is open as they're always packed. Honestly don't give 1 iota of 1 flying fuck who's in there. This is the dumbest issue on which the right has hung their hoods. Baptist churches have a much higher risk of sxl assault.
I mean "Lets play a game, ok? I want you to list every trans person who as sexually assaulted a child, you come up with that list, k? I will come up with a list of every priest who has SAed a child, lets see what list is longer, k?" Should be easy, right????
Let's look at that list and count how many on each list has a penis. At some point you'll identify penis is the common denominator. Should be even easier, right?
Lets play a game, ok? I want you to list every trans person who as sexually assaulted a child, you come up with that list, k? I will come up with a list of every priest who has SAed a child, lets see what list is longer, k?
I can see someone else is replying to these messages but I guess they have me blocked since I can't actually see the response. This is not the way to have healthy debate, folks.
The answer is no - it's not okay for predators to be anywhere, obviously. You are implying that all trans people are predators, which is very fkd up, obviously. Next question?
I’m saying it is fucked up to tell women that it is none of their business what the biological sex is of the man standing next to them in a female safe space. And as there is no way of telling a predatory man from a trans woman, women have to assume that any man is a risk.
Omg why do we even need to have this damn conversation?!? What is with the fake Jesus freaks that they just have to obsess over other people’s junk and what they do with it? Gaaaahhhhh
I don’t understand why people make a thing out of the bathroom debate. If you’re trans always come to the ladies room. We are much nicer in these matters, I think..
y should they have to if they're women? I'm sure u won't be able to tell the difference so all they're going to see is a woman going into men's toilets. imagine being so obsessed with other people who don't bother u 🤡
oh hey, nice rebuttal but can u truly say MEN will mind their own business LOL they will be talking straight into ur face and stare at ur tits. as a woman I don't mind other women sharing my bathroom and that's all I have to say about it.
Ok, so we except then that men do pose a risk to women. It’s far too risky for a trans woman to be in the men’s toilet, but it’s no risk for women to be exposed to same risk by allowing any man declaring himself a woman in the ladies. That’s a hard tick in the NO column.
Why are men so worried about Trans. When was the last time you shared a stall with someone. And when was the last time you willfully stood at the urinal right next to someone else? I think we got this handled already.
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As for my feelings about trans people. I admire the absolute courage you have to be who you are and will always be on your side.
I would likely say hello and find something to compliment, clothes, shoes, bag, hair, makeup, flamboyant shine—cause I’m just that type of person and admire bravery, beauty, and kindness.
How will they determine who is or isn’t allowed?
Most people you can’t even tell and it would be extremely offensive to ask, right?
Even then, how would one prove either or?
Insanity.
Where are these folks hanging out?
I know transgender people, they're my friends and family.. I frequent lgbtq spaces and so do many cis straight people.
If you're paranoid about transgender people, I suggest you see a therapist cause you're the one with issues.