Seriously. Walk up to them when their doing something that they seem very interested in and ask them if you can help. Try to understand it, and if you can't just let them teach you if their comfortable.
If you get a nerd to let you help on their projects don't betray it. They suspect you'll steal it
Pay attention to people who might be abusing or using them. Move those people from their life, let them know about it, and give them a safe place to work and let them acclimate
Then just cover their blind spots and let them know your not a threat your there to help.
It may seem like a struggle to get to know them, but they are learning you easily twice as fast
And don't expect anything. If they want you in their life they'll make a space for you. That space is a sterile environment for study. They have their reasons, and if you don't respect them, your disrespecting their person
Ladies have always gone after the Nerds, it's just that most people that claim to be Nerds aren't, they're just boring or gross dudes who want to be coddled in a relationship. Real Life Nerds have personalities, dreams, and most of all lots of empathy and compassion
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If you get a nerd to let you help on their projects don't betray it. They suspect you'll steal it
It may seem like a struggle to get to know them, but they are learning you easily twice as fast
lmao
What a guy
Erggg damn you brain fog!!!