Canceled a date because I felt unsafe~ Dude wanted me to park so my car was blocked in by his car… which doesn’t make sense unless… - ThreadSky

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social • 20 hours ago

Canceled a date because I felt unsafe~
Dude wanted me to park so my car was blocked in by his car… which doesn’t make sense unless…

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cococream.bsky.social•19 hours ago

Huge red flags, if met through an app I absolutely would report them. they are not a safe person.

paradoxdragon98.bsky.social•18 hours ago

Dodged that one there!
If you feel unsafe at all just back out of any date. I'm concerned about you you keep finding questionable people

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social•18 hours ago

This was the same person I mentioned about a week ago. It’s just the same questionable person! Hehehe i appreciate the concern.

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social•18 hours ago

It’s a scary world out there.

jaysartcorner.bsky.social•20 hours ago

Nope nope that is sketchy as shit glad you ditched and backed out.

mittensandpuddles.bsky.social•5 hours ago

That's one big nope

alexthebluefox.bsky.social•17 hours ago

Heeeeell the fuck no!

Go on a date who doesn't care where you park your car.

Bitch, we going to the local coffee shop and talking in PUBLIC!

caretakerthief.bsky.social•15 hours ago

Glad you trusted your gut!

thearbrat.bsky.social•17 hours ago

If they wanted to trap you with a vehicle they should have pulled up in a minivan with a lemon sized car seat in the back.

But seriously, that’s super sketchy.

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social•16 hours ago

Honestly… honestly

pixelpreschooler.bsky.social•20 hours ago

Yeah, no, you definitely made the right call

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social•20 hours ago

🙏🙏🙏

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social•20 hours ago

I still feel crumby, but my hunch told me I’d feel worse if I stayed.

myfkitten.bsky.social•19 hours ago

Okay that's definitely a red flag.

kameronspottyfox.bsky.social•20 hours ago

Yeah absolutely not. Good on ya for getting out of there.

peacemaker9669.bsky.social•18 hours ago

Better safe than sorry. I think you made a good call. If the guy really cares, he'd understand.

krev.gay•20 hours ago

Good call there, that's sketchy as heck. Your safety comes first!

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social•20 hours ago

I was really excited about where we were planning to go, but then I get a message this morning about how he wanted me to park and then he suggested we go up to his house (not the place we planned on.)
I just smell a faker… if he wanted to do that, we should have talked about it.

diapergator.bsky.social•18 hours ago

I'm not sure if you're in Mass, but if so, my partner and I can go with you to whatever it was. I'll just need to stop off at this dude's place for only a brief moment.

You made the right call.

fatethefox.bsky.social•19 hours ago

ok yeah, changing locations like that is DEFINITELY one of the biggest red flags

tomgungy.bsky.social•18 hours ago

Wow, I can't imagine what I woulda done in that situation. 🤔

Being a lil' social goblin ace, I might've plowed through the bad vibes and been an utter fucking nightmare, being without a car for him to play keep-away with. 😅

Moral: It's okay, cool, and punk to say "F U, don't feel like it." 👍🖕

lem0nsqueezy.bsky.social•18 hours ago

My lizard brain was screaming “bad idea.”
In conversations leading up to this attempt of a date he proved he doesn’t take me seriously.

tomgungy.bsky.social•18 hours ago

UGH, GET HIM! GET THIS MAN! 🙄

(You did SUCH a good job! ❤️ I am SO proud of you, buddy!)