Same thing goes when you have a different idea of what happened than someone else. You can say that’s not how I remember things happening. But it becomes abusive and manipulative when you try and say “that never happen” or “you’re lying.” Two things can be true at the same time without someone lying
Why whole thing is you can believe what you want but when you try and deny something happened that’s when I have a problem. And that’s when as a survivor I get angry and want to speak up because at that point your not just denying my story your denying the story of survivors everywhere.

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