When they’re that open and loud about it, it shows they’re unconcerned, oblivious, or both about making women uncomfortable. It’s a red flag related to consent for me.
I might play this sometimes as a joke, but in all actuality, even when I do mention my kinks, I mention them in passing. No one needs to know the nitty-gritty (and I mean no one, because I'm not interested in anyone outside of my partners).
Yes! That is a huge turn off and I feel like a red flag for trauma. Like dude what else do you have to offer besides leading with sex? Less sex. More therapy. Good morning, Queen.
I used to get shamed by my friends when I casually talked about my sex life or kinks cuz I saw value in being open about taboo
Now that I've been single for years and haven't had genuine emotional intimacy in years, I get icked when they talk about how good the sex they have with their partner is 🙃
I’ll just go ahead and say that folks should be able to consent or deny being exposed to sexual content and this is why I struggle with folks who do the whole “kink is my whole life I never stop talking about or posting about it” thing.
It also speaks volumes of their emotional intelligence regardless of their educational attainment or intellectual interests. That behavior is a massive turn-off for me.
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From the media we are made to consume to the talks that happen in the barber shops to the downplaying of rape to boys.
But that is due to patriarchy.
Still people just assume I'm being a prude 🥲
Now that I've been single for years and haven't had genuine emotional intimacy in years, I get icked when they talk about how good the sex they have with their partner is 🙃
gary oak was promiscuos and a dickhead, talented tho.
ive seen what makes yall cum on bluesky this is playground for sanctimonious(?) and debauched.
you cute 🫶🏿