Adding to this
I hate how the terms "problematic" and "unproblematic" have been so bastardised in fandom that it just means "not kinky" while out of fandom it means "was credibly accused of grooming" a lot of the time,
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Not all of them, obviously. And I'm not saying it's a free for all and you should get into things you're not into. I'm just saying don't obsessively preen to find the pure, because ... it's hard to find, and when you do find it you might be in strange, binary-minded company.

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