My solution is I just don't ask what someone's gender is. I might ask what pronouns they use just so I know how to address them, but I'm not going to ask them about their gender because that's none of my business.
“What’s in your pants?” My ass. It’s a thing everyone has to a greater or lesser extent. And it gets tiring when people feel the need to ask if “Activities” Weren’t already on the table
I still cherish catching some dude off guard by responding if he was Circumcised [I’m living in America and it’s common here even among Gentiles] when he asked if I got “The surgery”. Proceeded to talk about the issues with Circumcision and got a chuckle when he learnt it’s not common globally
Sorry for everyone who actually has this problem in real life. People confused me for a boy a long time but they were never mean about it. I understood because i did look androgynous, and never cared too much. It was hardly ever a negative experience. Just dress however you feel comfortable!
You know what bud's right we don't need anyone romantically. I'll invite them to trivia night at the brewpub. We don't need to drink but there's a few of us going and bud can join us if they want.
To me, I would only really get irritated at the person if they were hounding me about it.
In a lot of cases, I think an initial gentle response is warranted. The other person is likely just interested in what they should call you so that you can be addressed properly. Even if it's just any/any
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No really it is good to see representation good or bad as it is no ones business
Or some such misquoted Shakespeare nonsense.
But YEAH. Mood. It is kind of the time to be spicy.
But to each their own!
This is about how your gender isn’t on default other people’s business
I just don't want to offend you.
Can I call you "bro" or "dude" then?
The only people that need to know what's down there is your lovers and your doctors.
In a lot of cases, I think an initial gentle response is warranted. The other person is likely just interested in what they should call you so that you can be addressed properly. Even if it's just any/any