What is your best advice for overcoming sexual shame? Anything in particular that work for you guys well? - ThreadSky

twinkworshiper8.bsky.social • 44 days ago

What is your best advice for overcoming sexual shame?
Anything in particular that work for you guys well?

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dearfox.bsky.social•44 days ago

just did it

kaarlotus.bsky.social•44 days ago

Depends what do you mean with sexual shame? I'll give you a quick poke

twinkworshiper8.bsky.social•44 days ago

I want to try have a threesome or group sex with my partner but I feel like if I did it would be yucky or immoral or make me a bad person when I know that's a load of BS. And often when I engage in kinks or fantasies I feel the same way.
And sometimes it doesn't even have to be kinky.

kaarlotus.bsky.social•44 days ago

Can’t speak for much of public perception of kinks since I am as vanilla as they come. But the threesome: is the worry about what a person participating might feel later? If yes then I suppose that’s a valid worry

If it’s ”what others think”, how would people find out? The ones that would freak out

twinkworshiper8.bsky.social•44 days ago

It's more of what I would think of myself. Like there is a side of me that's incredible critical of my sexuality even though I don't like that side of me. If you know what I mean?

kaarlotus.bsky.social•44 days ago

*nods* okay! I feel like I get what you mean, there's one "kink" I have, which again is consensual and just whatever for most, but tends to be something that people would go "ew" about and I haven't much said that aloud because I don't want to get labeled, so yeah, I do get that.

kaarlotus.bsky.social•44 days ago

”don’t care what others think” is not something that works, i’m more thinking: if someone would find out they were already curious about it…

And if they are someone who would search for things to freak out about? Well in this modern day it is a common hobby but it’s a sumb hobby. Keep being you <3

kaarlotus.bsky.social•44 days ago

To sum up a long text: It's not YOUR problem as such if someone finds legal, consensual *anything* between adults an immoral thing.

If they see that happen, they actively search to harm themselves with content they don't like. It's not your job to "protect" prudes~

twinkworshiper8.bsky.social•44 days ago

Thanks so much for your advice! I think it also helps to surround myself with sex positive people like yourself! ;3

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