When she says "I love her. But I'm not attracted to her." Your response is apparently supposed to be "yeah but everyone else hates you and thinks you're gross so you might as well stay." ????
The fuck.
Right? Like idk who you thought I was but I'm not going to encourage anyone to stay miserable when they are very literally begging me to help them find the courage to leave. That was never part of my friendship.
Abuse is abuse and your mate needs to understand that. It may also explain why the other person wants out. As someone in the same kinda situation this past year.... The lies and manipulation where doors were closed was ooooft so damaging
She started telling other people I broke them up. With no context. Made it seem like I started talking to her partner to get her to leave instead of being contacted for advice on how to leave. Luckily I didn't have to be involved in that clarification story because it would've been NASTY.
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The fuck.