Look at this a bit differently for a moment: It might be "a few close friends" but that right there is a huge thing to have. Close friends. Don't take that for granted. Rather have interactions with a few true friends than a crowd.
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And, if you do crave the attention of more people, then there really is no other way than "diving in" and being (pro)active. If you go through life without making connections, yes, very few will know if you disappear.
I do base this on my own experience, the burden is not on others, it's on us (you) to reach out, we can't wait for others to assume you want them to spend time with you.
If we would all wait for others to come to us, everybody would be waiting around all alone! :D And you know in the grand scheme of things does it matter how many know if you even exist? Not really. Those who are important to you know. That's my 2cents anyway ;)
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