The solution to the “male crisis” is for the loser youth to act like gay guys (let their partner earn more, split chores evenly, do well and value doing well at school, etc.) but societally, for the loser youth, masculinity is defined as the opposite of that so good fucking luck.
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So one man sharpens another."
The key to masculinity & improvment is finding people to work with & challenge you. Brothers, fathers, sons, uncles are good candidates as are friends.
(Self-assuredness coupled with equal self-deprecation is a bonus.)
Couldn't comment on what kind of genitals those traits have, though.