I think that's fair. For me, there's just a just a difference between "I feel safe telling you about this" vs. "I want you to actively support/engage with me in my addiction." I'm not sure which one it is, but ime, if its the first, ppl share that because they feel like you care about them ❤️
Definitely a difference in the two. I'm not opposed to the former. The latter is what I've been experiencing lately. And I feel like to each their own but respectfully I don't want to partake or be pressured into it when I decline.
I feel this. I don't partake at all, I rarely drink. And I don't want the pressure of being asked either. The need for more ppl to be pulled into their habits/the culture of enablement is upsetting to someone who doesn't use, so hard boundaries are necessary *sigh*
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