I never understood that. Maybe cause I'm Demisexual but unwanted advances are anathema to me. Making others uncomfortable makes me very uncomfortable as well. Why would you miss out on a chance at friendship by trying to force something more out of a sense of entitlement?
from a male perspective, I have to admit sometimes it's also hard to not give off that vibe, which in turn led to me dialling down the platonic flirt even around people who get me.
I am glad I have the Outlook I do being Demi, in the fact that I don't objectify women at all. I can think you are beautiful, and attractive, but I would never do something as uncouth and rude as making passes at women I don't know, or even ones I do. It's just rude and disrespectful
Furthermore, I hate seeing women sexualized and fetishized over because they have mental health issues, Especially BPD! For some reason now, if you are a cute girl, BPD is sexy! Lol When it's Actually the furthest thing from it! *Smdh* 🤦
It’s a difficult conversation because I absolutely do not blame people turning to online SW as a supplementary form of income, if they are well-informed and know what to expect. But people need to be aware of the dark side of it, so many girls turn to it as soon as they turn 18 :(
Totally agree, I've seen girls go from just pretty pics to full on nudity because it gets them money, I don't think they realise it's there for the rest of their lives, I feel sorry for any kids they have in the future, they will have hell growing up.
This is huge in video games I fear... Often the women I try to become friends with make it a "competition" over who's the more appealing woman, when all I want is a real connection between girls.
I’d rather just talk about books, video games, and good horror movies. A pleasant appearance is nice, but it’s an entirely optional DLC behind all the rest. 🙂
I saw the comment you got on here earlier and honestly because of my X page my brain truly tunes out to those sort of comments now but still some will pop up where I have to block instantly! I definitely would here :)
I used to get them on IG a lot and same thing, block right away. But I had been doing so good on not getting them on here 😭 ah well, creeps get in every so often. And realistically most are bots of some kind 😔
You around the wrong people. you need to find people who are thinkers. Those with thought can only be turned on by possibility. It makes for more fun and great conversations.
It's every where unfortunately that re-enforces that narrative. The number of times you see women being paraded half naked, especially singers and other influencers, because that's supposed to sell, but undermines their own person and agency
I hear ya. I’m happily married. We’ve been together for a whopping 33 years. I’ve got my hottie. I just want to hang with people and talk about and share spooky, creepy stuff.
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