I love the carefree attitude I’ve developed right before entering my thirties this summer, like I used to be such a people pleaser and care too much about what people think, now I couldn’t give a shit ✨🫶☺️🖤
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Before I turned 30, I used to worry that I was becoming a joyless, irascible misanthrope, and that I would push people away from me, if I didn't act more cheerful.
Now that I'm 44, I look back and I think "I would've gotten a lot more accomplished if I'd leaned INTO the rage/disgust."
Your 30s are SO much better than your 20s! At 23, I was desperately insecure, deeply unstable, constantly giving more than I had to make ppl merely like me, now I’m 33 and could not give a shit if ppl like me or not, the worthwhile humans will see *you* and stay, the rest can fuck off😋💖
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Before I turned 30, I used to worry that I was becoming a joyless, irascible misanthrope, and that I would push people away from me, if I didn't act more cheerful.
Now that I'm 44, I look back and I think "I would've gotten a lot more accomplished if I'd leaned INTO the rage/disgust."
Let this realign you with the genuine folk who can see you.
Let it drop off the ones who don't.