Don’t feel bad. Sometimes I wish I could just lurk, but as a friendly and talkative person, sometimes I need to talk. I know what to say, but constant conversations can be overwhelming too. I get drained and need a break every couple of hours.
Enjoy the peace that comes with lurking. 🧘🏻♂️🫶🏻🧘🏻♀️
Totally. Just enjoy. Engage if you feel like it and if you don’t, forget about it and don’t force yourself. I force myself to talk all the time, I talk and talk, but then I regret it, and I want to run, hide and deactivate. We’re all crazy in our own way. 😂
Same. I have also had things typed out before and then before I can hit reply/post I get the feeling of “no one is gonna care what I have to say anyway” so I tend to delete it and scroll away.
But I’m trying to be better at that on this app. I hit the button and just hope for the best lol
It can be hard to know what to say. A lot of people ask questions, like, what is your fave/least fave whatever. Some ( this is me) just post very random stream of consciousness things.
If it helps, there’s no right answer and no pressure. 💜🫶
I too have that same dilemma most of the time 😅 I’ve tried asking questions but no one ever answers. Just try not to post anything that, if 10 years down the road, you get instantly famous, someone isn’t going to dig up and cancel you over 😅
I see how it can be difficult I follow over 1000 people and o feel like the same maybe 50ish people come up in my mutual feed. Hopefully it gets better as the site grows and don’t worry I’m a 90s kid so I’ve had it drilled into my head that the internet is forever 😂
You can also go up to your following tab and scroll down through the people you’re actually following. I do that sometimes just to make sure I’m interacting with my mutuals.
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Enjoy the peace that comes with lurking. 🧘🏻♂️🫶🏻🧘🏻♀️
But I’m trying to be better at that on this app. I hit the button and just hope for the best lol
If it helps, there’s no right answer and no pressure. 💜🫶