i keep naively thinking that if there's one thing that can unite us, it's joy
joy for living the first time without the gray filter, about love, about solidarity
but the more i am witnessing, the more i see some just want others to not feel horrible, to dismantle, devoid of joy for others....
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joy for living the first time without the gray filter, about love, about solidarity
but the more i am witnessing, the more i see some just want others to not feel horrible, to dismantle, devoid of joy for others....
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if your only tool is a pen then every problem looks like theories
"you don't love men, it's patriarchy"
"acktually, you will never be satisfied with men, here's the stats"
"here are the books that prove i can save you from men"
just let women have sex with who they mutually consented with, stfu
"you don't love men, it's patriarchy"
"acktually, you will never be satisfied with men, here's the stats"
"here are the books that prove i can save you from men"
just let women have sex with who they mutually consented with, stfu
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It is a joyful act to hate the people who would enact hatred against you. It is natural, its balance, its righteous.
I think joy must be cultivated, it's easy to hate. It takes no work, it takes no empathy, curiosity, or understanding.
You merely label them as other and allow a disgust response to rule your actions. Hate is lazy. Hate is self destructive. Hate protects our own fragile ego
↖️ simultaneously has both, somehow
Learning the difference between my anger and my hatred and accepting that my hatred was irrational and insecure was a huge part of healing for me.
I'm allowed to be angry. I often feel hate, but i should understand it before acting.
Anger can be justified. It is our right to assert our anger to protect ourselves.
Hatred is a disgust response. We don't need to justify it, or even understand it, because we just know we hate it.
i think happiness is stronger and doing hate to achieve happiness is corrupting it. because one day, hate will reach a dead end and come back to bite you
ego?
not understanding that others have another sexuality?
that others have joy in something you don't?
discard all those theories, books or whatever
you shouldn't need all of those to understand that happiness in our siblings is primordial, even more now...
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do you think i feel safe when people hide horrible lines by doing "theories", by "just joking"?
that's just me but
princesscore, emma, jane, belrose, they are getting the brunt and mallory is getting the full brunt...
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whatever happens, it's a rock or a hard place
but, others that's perpetuating this gets out scot-free?
how can we have a sisterhood?
but i naively thought that, at very least, we can decent to one and other, that seeing each other reach happiness will keep us going
but even this is too much to ask
i am still stunned