i wish there were more discord servers I could join cuz I've been pretty damn lonely lately. I'll probably be shy talking there too but I feel comfortable being in active spaces,,, especially where I can share my art and start a convo from there.
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Not sure where you are at, but If your near a medium or larger metro I would check to see if there are local furry meets! They are often not very well publicized. Attending in person events have helped me tremendously with loneliness.
I'm autistic and don't really know how to make friends but we share a lot of beliefs and interests and I love talking and listening to people yap. My discord is the same as my bluesky user if you're interested, but no obligation of course. I just thought it would be nice to offer :3
do you have your own server? i know managing one can kinda be a lot but that way, you'd have full control over who gets to be part of it and whoever makes you uncomfortable, you're free to boot without needing to explain at all.
moots if you want to invite me anywhere you can if you want, but it's not an obligation. I'm just extremely lonely nowadays and dealing with an abusive home life.
i appreciate others reaching out too, although I'm very wary of people I don't know well cuz extreme past trauma and I'm just super shy. but you all are sweet, maybe I'll be less scared in the future. thnx
I have a server full of my friends! I am also hesitant to reach out due to past things. It's quiet in my discord but I'll read and reply to things. There are always a few crawling :)
It's understandable, I hope these words help: You have beautiful artwork and I appreciate your posts here on bluesky when I log on. I hope life starts being kinder to you, you deserve better.
Hey, just want you to know. I appreciate your art a lot, and I've had my own tangles with trauma. If you can't or don't want to deal with a stranger that's cool, but I want to reach out just in case. No expiry date.
i mod for a rad art n fandom themed server full of (i believe) almost entirely trans n/or queer nerds~ lmk if y'all would like the invite~ <3 hope ya find spaces that make y'all feel super safe n warm n cozy or wtvs~
Uhh, if you're interested we have a small server with plenty of queer, therian and systems folks, we also usually hang out in webfishing, share art and just nice things, interested?
My closest group is this small mostly-American, predominantly trans furs and 100% queer friend server. Our second eldest is my good friend Sid, a Filipino-American SoCal trans man who loves everything goth and horror. It's my safe place and I'm willing to share it if you need it.
Chat apps have a lot of ups and downs for me. I may join one group that’s very chill and supportive… then I join another and it’s full of drama and arguing.
I’ve never really found “my people” yet. But hopefully we can both find lots of people that support us and what we do. That’ll be good enough.
DUDE SAMEEE
I've been trying to look for new spaces to be in but they're SO hard to find. It's either completely inactive or way too active because there's thousands of people in them.
We have a pretty small discord server that's hella queer friendly and super sweet. It's me and a few others who are close friends. If you want, I can ask our moderator if you could join. 3/5 active members there know your art and love it to bits. But that's only if you would like! ^^
hey uh we're not mutuals but i think we're mutual-in-laws with a fair number of people, iirc @tropicalscream.bsky.social @fallh0und.bsky.social @fazmaz.bsky.social and maybe a few other people you might know and i are all in @gaussiangoose.bsky.social 's server, maybe reach out to one of them?
I'm in Dani/AngusBurgers's Discord and it's one of the best things that's happened to me in the past couple years - you'd fit right in with us trans and enby emo kids
same, i fel like i only (?)
i like being on discord but i always end u[ padszing out not talking very more because everywhere i seem to not fit in very much, but its better
then otherwise on the internet places; social media
I completely get it. My loneliness comes from my own making. I have good friends but they can’t be with me 24/7 and I don’t have the spoons to message all of them. Stress makes me isolate and it’s so silly. Being Neuro spicy and a chronic illness boy is so hard.
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it has a server but it's mostly just kink LOL so probably not the best place to invite somebody pet doesn't even know,,,,
I’ve never really found “my people” yet. But hopefully we can both find lots of people that support us and what we do. That’ll be good enough.
I've been trying to look for new spaces to be in but they're SO hard to find. It's either completely inactive or way too active because there's thousands of people in them.
i like being on discord but i always end u[ padszing out not talking very more because everywhere i seem to not fit in very much, but its better
then otherwise on the internet places; social media