I consider myself a lil on the vanilla side when it comes to kinks, so I’m always curious about how the develop, how they’re experienced, what the dopamine rush is triggered by etc
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Now that's a pretty interesting topic to explore. Kinks are something that may let you know about either someone else's struggles, or things that were present in their life that became something that brought pleasure to them 🙂↕️
It’s crazy how many kinks are related to seaming comfort and security from people usually deprived of those things. Or a surrender of control and responsibility.
tl;dr I saw a pic of a large muscular woman cuddling her much smaller lover and thought “man, that’d fix me”
WHY WOULD IT FIX ME!? Like yeah cuddling is nice but why is the combination of giant woman and lil guy make my brain YEARN like it’s never yearned before!? It’s fascinating
as adults that have to maintain a lot of control over their lives and protecting ourselves from potential hurt, it makes sense to yearn for someone who could do that for you !!
like feeling safe and taken care of is always nice, gives being an adult a break!!
also like!! bigger people who COULD have so much power over you and hurting you, like, what if they DIDNT, and then they kept you safe and actually cared deeply about you as a person 🥺
this is definitely very size play kink vibes though for sure
dude yes. also as a guy there's also a fear that I'd be imposing myself upon someone but if they're bigger then its like...I can worry a lil less because they'd be in control physically and they could just yeet me if they didn't like me (but they like me so they don't)
Honestly I like talking about this stuff cuz I can probably trace back most of them to either reclaiming bad things that happened or emulating things I never had
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WHY WOULD IT FIX ME!? Like yeah cuddling is nice but why is the combination of giant woman and lil guy make my brain YEARN like it’s never yearned before!? It’s fascinating
like feeling safe and taken care of is always nice, gives being an adult a break!!
also like!! bigger people who COULD have so much power over you and hurting you, like, what if they DIDNT, and then they kept you safe and actually cared deeply about you as a person 🥺
this is definitely very size play kink vibes though for sure