I guess some exploration is in order, but at the same time stay safe and be with someone who you trust, if you can. And maybe try something you can do by yourself, like acessories and other things that doesn't involve a second person.
It all comes down to how it makes you feel, really, and how you want it to be or not. Sometimes, stuff just grow on you as you get used to see it more. You'll know when something doesn't sit right with you and if you have doubt, it's good to reflect on it sometimes.
Sometimes it's not about your personal taste but the artistic visual of it that makes you wanna illustrate it, besides, kink and sex can both coexist and live separately from each other
Like people that have a muscle praise/comparison kink so they work out for either themselves or to get praised
Like, am I 'into' certain types of bondage porn because its philosophical core of a loss of control appeals to me or do I just like it because penetration is hot and/or the characters doing it are hot combined with a general fascination of an 'exotic' scenario lol
Honestly like, there are kinks I have that are hot without the involvement of sex in any way. I am always interested in underwear. But most stuff is hot when combined with sex. And that's okay, you can still be into something and like it combined with sex, exclusively!
This is a big mood, honestly. Usually, if I still see myself finding it hot after post-nut clarity, I usually chalk it up to being an actual kink of mine.
Then again, being into specific aspects of things is also part of it so... *shrugs*
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Like people that have a muscle praise/comparison kink so they work out for either themselves or to get praised
Like, I don't even like incest if the characters doing it aren't hot to me lol, but I wouldn't say I'm not into incest as a kink, so... *shrug*
Then again, being into specific aspects of things is also part of it so... *shrugs*