With all this urge to lump all men in with cishet white men so many intersections of manhood that are marginalized in a unique way that involves the fact that they are men get totally ignored and thus rhetoric about marginalized men is perpetuated in a way that gets us excluded from our own groups - ThreadSky

gonmorow.bsky.social • 56 days ago

With all this urge to lump all men in with cishet white men so many intersections of manhood that are marginalized in a unique way that involves the fact that they are men get totally ignored and thus rhetoric about marginalized men is perpetuated in a way that gets us excluded from our own groups

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gonmorow.bsky.social•56 days ago

It's kinda crazy that I'm a man or a woman depending on which gender the other person hates the most and not depending on my actual gender which is fuck you at this point. Nobody's allowed to know my full gender except my friends because people can't be responsible with it

gonmorow.bsky.social•56 days ago

I definitely think misandry doesn't exist in the way incels and dudebro MRAs act like it does. However, it does exist for marginalized men. You can easily say men are loved by society but that isn't always true if you're marginalized in a certain way.Marginalization interacts with gender stereotypes

gonmorow.bsky.social•56 days ago

I think people are so lost in the advanced discourse sauce that they just totally forget about this when they say misandry doesnt exist though.
Maybe bigots hate me because of misogyny. But they also hate me because I became a man and didnt stay a cis woman. Its related even if u say it's not.

gonmorow.bsky.social•56 days ago

When queer ppl tell me that testosterone makes you violent its both because they hate marginalized men and trans women n also because they don't want afab people to stop being feminine. But again, cishet white dudes can shrug this and accept it. Ppl like me can't ignore violent rhetoric + exclusion

gonmorow.bsky.social•56 days ago

Even though womanhood is objectified and looked down on, there's a certain social desirability for cis womanhood that outclasses trans manhood and womanhood which are viewed as lesser because they're "tainted" by other genders. This is especially bad in the lesbian community.

gonmorow.bsky.social•56 days ago

Just because cishet white men are at the top of society doesnt mean misandry or the hatred of masculinity isn't real!. It just means they're not the actual victims of misandrist rhetoric because they have the power to shrug it off and be easily accepted by their communities.

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