Is it really that fun to dom ? Like maybe it's just cause I don't have a single dom bone in my body, but while I can totally imagine getting straped and teased for hours and never getting bored, being in the dom's place doesn't seem as fun.
Need the doms of bsky to chime in on this one 👀
Need the doms of bsky to chime in on this one 👀
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Of course depending on how the scene is set up, sex can be involved too which is fun in and of itself.
I do also sub on occasion, so I'm not a "true" dom =P
Also teaches me some new things to try for when I go back to domming 😏
Main thing is: There's no strict rule, and you define what you like.
For me, I take a lot of enjoyment in providing situations that I would enjoy as a sub, and having a worshipping sub all over me.
Got an oral driven sub? Make them huff that bulge, play with their mouth, and maybe give them their treat if they earned it 😈
THERE'S SO MANY OPTIONS 🤩
(And I definitely want to explore both sides of the switch 😁)
But, with the right person, it can be quite fun to look at them in the eyes, as you pull on their collar and make them huff you deep and see the pleasure shivers 😌
Or, you are scared of being a "starfish" sub doing nothing and just being a toy.
If you really want to be a good sub, you work for it. That responsibility is shared 😊
I'm sure there's doms out there that'd love to indulge 👀
Something about knowing what buttons to push to make a sub squirm or assisting them to what they want has some gratification to it.
Something that definitely came to me getting older I'd say ^^;;