I’m not being sarcastic when I say that these are all excellent questions to ask. Personally I’m terrified of abandonment and will hide my feelings even to those closest to me to prevent it.
That sounds fantastic, actually. I reconnected with an old friend that i know for a fact is not interested in me sexually (there are billions, I'm not delusional but knowing who they are is a different matter) and just the friendly cuddle is everything to me right now
The problem is that sometimes MULTIPLE PEOLLE ABANDON YOU AT ONCE!! Last year, as Christmas was approaching and my cat was dying, I got dumped by not one, but TWO women within a week. They also had the same first name.
When you abandon me, can you give me an idea of what you're going to blame it on (other than me making this list; this is very normal and that's not fair).
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I mean and also I'm just attracted to multiple types of people for varying reasons and monogamy bores me but first points still stand
That said, I met someone recently, who was in an asex poly group and said they just kind of get home and cuddle puddle and that sounds fantastic
I have always said this place is like a theater kid cuddle puddle
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DO I LOOK BAD BLIND