He poisons relationships. Your uncle (let's call him Sam), your friend, your only neighbour, who lives on the same floor as you, so you never locked your doors. Uncle Sam is family. You haven't always agreed on everything, sometimes he's been weird. - ThreadSky

carolesse.bsky.social • 16 days ago

He poisons relationships.
Your uncle (let's call him Sam), your friend, your only neighbour, who lives on the same floor as you, so you never locked your doors.
Uncle Sam is family. You haven't always agreed on everything, sometimes he's been weird.

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carolesse.bsky.social•16 days ago

Could the family unite against uncle Sam? Maybe. But would the cousins come to help you against him? You never needed that before, you were the one helping others, you were safe living next to good old uncle Sam.
He poisons relationships.

carolesse.bsky.social•16 days ago

If he doesn't follow through with the rape threat, you'll never again forget that feeling in your gut, that threat from a friend. Forgive perhaps (oh, Uncle Sam was intoxicated or sick for years!) but forget, never.
Your trust died, the relationship is ruined and the family is dysfunctional now.

carolesse.bsky.social•16 days ago

Lock your doors so he has an excuse to get angry and kick it down? Carry bear spray and a knife so he has an excuse to come in guns-a-blazing? He's got big guns and would feel manly using them.
He's also threatening your distant cousins with rape, eviction, anhihilation.

carolesse.bsky.social•16 days ago

You could always keep your stuff for yourself, or ask cousins for what you need. But you can't refuse to share your heating oil and electricity, or he'll say you are a menace to his security.
But the threat of him invading your privacy, that is making you anxious.

carolesse.bsky.social•16 days ago

It's a threat to your sovereignty and integrity. You feel it in your gut, that threat. From your uncle. And only neighbour.
Sam has recently made it difficult when HE was asking YOU for a cup of sugar or oil! Your friend, your relative.

carolesse.bsky.social•16 days ago

But you've gotten along fine and trusted each other and went to each other for help when the need arose. He recently told the whole family that you were his lover (WTF?) People said, 'oh, he's just teasing you!' He also told everyone he'd rape you. Jokingly? These are no joking matters.

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