it's cuz as kids we were told that asking for help showed "signs of weakness" 😭 (it doesnt) and that being independent shows strength. independence and strength aren't related...
Of when we asked for help were called stupid or told we were a burden. So we stopped asking all together and just say "No nothing wrong" until the slow decline of our sanity as everything piles.
Than they get all mad when they triple the work and move the deadline from a week to tommorow. Like ya all I asked for assistance 3 times. Just becuase I can keep up doesn't mean this is a realistic standard to place.
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