When I was a kid and questioning my sexuality the only representation I had were my moms gay friends, thier flames burned very bright. Loved dolls, antiques, bright shoe laces. This is all wonderful and I celebrate it today, but as a kid, I was into cars, camping, hiking etc. I though that being gay - ThreadSky

chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social • 104 days ago

When I was a kid and questioning my sexuality the only representation I had were my moms gay friends, thier flames burned very bright. Loved dolls, antiques, bright shoe laces. This is all wonderful and I celebrate it today, but as a kid, I was into cars, camping, hiking etc. I though that being gay

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chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social•104 days ago

Meant I had to be into all the stereotypical gay stuff. And I didn’t want to do that. So in my mind I couldn’t be gay, I didn’t *want* to be gay if I had to do the things I didn’t want to do. What I didn’t realize, bc there was no representation of gays like me, is that queers come in all types.

chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social•104 days ago

Queers can be anyone. The media protrays us as a joke, a comic sidekick or a tragic self loathing character, or a predator. We’ve had very little positive representation.
This is why I constantly convey how important it is for any and every out queer living their life on social media to speak to

chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social•104 days ago

Thier younger closeted selves. What kind of message did you need when you were little? What message would have helped you? Speak to them. This is especially important for trans and bipoc queers. The amount of positive representation for the even more marginalized groups is near zero.

chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social•104 days ago

What hero did you need? What message would have helped you? What would have made you feel better and hate yourself less? Made you accept yourself more? Speak to them, tell them it’s gonna be ok, tell them that who they are is ok, that they will find community and love and friends.

chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social•104 days ago

The goal of every queer, is to make the world a better place for the next generation. Be the daddy or role model for someone, anyone, everyone. Do your part. No matter how small, because I guarantee there is a little human watching you, and you will effect thier lives.

chicagodomdaddy.bsky.social•104 days ago

Whether you know it or not.
When I started this twitchy and now Blue Sky, it was to jerk off to porn. Then my mouth took over. And I had an affect I could never imagined. I get stopped in every city and country I visit, I get messages daily, how I’ve helped someone, made them feel better

switch-jon.bsky.social•104 days ago

Thank you for living an open and authentic life and sharing it with us. It helps us all deal with life and improve who we are. Kindness, wisdom and humility together are always powerful.

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