I’ve had boner issues since I was 22. I think because my dick is so fat (lol humble brag) So yeah I don’t have any shame about my use of boner pills and trimix ! If you have issues maintaining an erection see a doctor you don’t have to live like that. 💗 - ThreadSky

zaddytony.bsky.social • 95 days ago

I’ve had boner issues since I was 22. I think because my dick is so fat (lol humble brag)

So yeah I don’t have any shame about my use of boner pills and trimix !

If you have issues maintaining an erection see a doctor you don’t have to live like that. 💗

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sjhard71.bsky.social•94 days ago

I always appreciate how open and honest you are about sex and intimacy, and this thread/conversation is a great example.

alternativetoad.bsky.social•95 days ago

Love that you're so forward about this! I've definitely considered it. My dick can be a bit shy at times, but very few guys talk about it.

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

I try to talk about it as much as possible because it really stopped me from enjoying my sex life in my early - mid 20s!

leatherbud.bsky.social•95 days ago

Hey, buddy 65 and a prostate cancer survivor. Boner pill are a part of many man's life! Not ashamed

geonext.bsky.social•53 days ago

Damn I love to see this in action sometime

kaiciferz.bsky.social•95 days ago

I’ve always had issues too. 🙈 It’s refreshing to hear that it’s normal, so thank you for shouting this out!

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Of course babe

crewclubcruiser.bsky.social•95 days ago

When I jack off I can stay hard for an hour, but when topping I’d go limp like 10 minutes in because I was so worried about satisfying my bottom.
Ever since I took Viagra (and the like) I don’t have that worry and can keep going till he (or each of them, if I’m lucky) finishes.

talladhdguy.bsky.social•95 days ago

Yeah, I struggle with that too.

blackcat6969.bsky.social•95 days ago

Good to know. My issue is I’m hard often and nobody to my liking to help service it

xxxmanfan.bsky.social•92 days ago

Question for the replies: what’s ur daily dosage?

astrotank.bsky.social•95 days ago

Thanks for the honesty..a lot of men, myself included, have this difficulty. We see these porns with guys hard for hours..making it seem that is natural or normal. I take a natural enhancer daily and pop the pills when needed..like you I’m not ashamed.

thepupfidget.bsky.social•94 days ago

Great advocacy. A ton of people show up in my office feeling so defeated with this issue, but the fact is this is a struggle all penis owners will face at some point assuming they intend to have a vibrant sex life as they age. Once you hit 40 every decade you hit is the percentage of guys w/ ED

foxyboyoliver.bsky.social•95 days ago

It's no joke! My adhd has messed mine up too lately. Idk why I can't always keep it up but lately it's been more difficult . Though a thick one behind me often helps 😆 🤣

samcockwell.bsky.social•95 days ago

This is actually so refreshing to hear (and it does seem like a common issue in people with dicks ~7 inches and up in my experience, just need more blood)

fjmag1979.bsky.social•94 days ago

Thanks for pointing out that fact, and I add that I thought that issue just happens to men as hung as John Holmes†.

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Yeah and I feel like there’s so much shame around it which is unfortunate !

samcockwell.bsky.social•95 days ago

Honestly I’ve never even considered it as an option before just now despite also having these occasional issues and that feels like the effect of all the shame and stigma. Because why have I NEVER considered it?!? I’m at ~80% hard instead of 100% hard A LOT even when fully turned on.

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Same ! And sometimes even if I haven’t cum in a few days. If I only stay half hard then suddenly I’m in my head and I fully lose it.

samcockwell.bsky.social•95 days ago

The moment you consciously realize it all falls apart. Real annoying. It’s made me sometimes not want to do things with new people if I don’t know how they may react yet.

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

I’ve stopped myself from hooking up with men because I wasn’t sure my dick would stay alert.

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

THAT PART !!!

cumguzzler3000.bsky.social•95 days ago

aye just got boner pills from my doctor in september, they’ve been great 💜 i’ve always struggled staying hard enough to top, so i’ve been a bottom even though i like to think i’m vers 💜

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Let’s celebrate that!!!

cumguzzler3000.bsky.social•95 days ago

it’s been grand ☺️ though i’ve only given two loads to boys though due to #locktober and more hahah

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Just glad you’re feeling more confident in your body and self :)

cumguzzler3000.bsky.social•95 days ago

💜

bobsnotrob.bsky.social•95 days ago

THIS is the PSA we all needed!

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

I talk about this a lot. I feel like we have all these dialogues about bottoming shaming but top shaming is also very real.

I’ve had guys never talk to me again because I lost a boner during sex.

bobsnotrob.bsky.social•93 days ago

Thank you for talking about it!

deadfishdaddy73.bsky.social•95 days ago

I've had issues getting hard and staying hard since my liver transplant,and then developing type 2 diabetes. It's been getting better since I started exercising and losing weight,but I'm yet to see what I can take because of my anti-rejection medicine.
Thanks for speaking out about it.

buckabator.bsky.social•95 days ago

Your honesty is a turn on.

djimio.bsky.social•95 days ago

I can't find you on Blue Sky!

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Also I have IBS so in my early 20s not only could I not get hard sometimes I also couldn’t get fucked 😂😂

Shit was rough

richardryder.bsky.social•94 days ago

Saaaame! It sucks!

poeticcosmicthirst.bsky.social•95 days ago

But on the bright side you developed impressive oral skills before overcoming those issues. Top of the hat we don't know another's struggles.

samcockwell.bsky.social•95 days ago

I’d gladly just have a nice evening sucking and jerking with you, for what it’s worth 😘

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Always down for that scene

sexychris69.bsky.social•94 days ago

No pun intended.

forestfoxy.bsky.social•95 days ago

I have chronic gastritis and no gallbladder, so I absolutely understand. I'm not always available for operation, but I make do in other ways ;)

azucarcaramelo.bsky.social•95 days ago

Yeah I fucking hate it. I have not bottomed since after college (8 years) because of this 😣

quarterchallenge.bsky.social•95 days ago

Love the honesty! Thanks for sharing so others don't feel alone.

thatdarnsquirrel.bsky.social•91 days ago

Both me and my bf have IBS lmao. "Was that your stomach or mine?" is a common refrain

thickrickwolf.bsky.social•95 days ago

Tony, it’s huge that you shared that. I had IBS for decades before a smart Gastroenterologist actually cured it.

tigerb44.bsky.social•95 days ago

All the Hot people have IBS😂 Its okay

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Additionally I have adhd so I’m on a high powered stimulant just so I can function and another unfortunate thing is it fucks my boners up sometimes!

joebro3920.bsky.social•95 days ago

It does mine too bro. I completely understand. And I take tadalafil liquid myself!

radliftist.bsky.social•95 days ago

same, the stim meds are a fucking problem sometime

greyfaguette.bsky.social•94 days ago

I didn’t know adhd meds could do that

schwarzebar.bsky.social•95 days ago

The adhd piece is such a huge part of the ordeal. If I get even remotely in my head or distracted the hard on is out the door.

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Say it again

caderainier.bsky.social•92 days ago

YES holy shit

caderainier.bsky.social•92 days ago

The struggle is real lmao. Vyvanse works wonders for my ADHD but can be a nightmare for topping sometimes 😭

tbettini.bsky.social•95 days ago

I feel seen. Had to quit my adhd meds cause of that, not even boners pills were helping in my case.

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

I went through most of my 20s with extreme anxiety around topping until I started treatment for it. Please don’t follow in my foot steps!

biorph.bsky.social•95 days ago

I feel like a lot of shame (though not all) around that is on the hetero side. Most every gay guy I know uses some aid and is open about it, I know I do, because performance anxiety is a thing.

8inchcosmicbrownie.bsky.social•94 days ago

Thank you for sharing

radliftist.bsky.social•94 days ago

your doctor prescribes trimix for you? what’s it like?

thetozzer.bsky.social•95 days ago

I tried Viagra but it gives me raging headaches. Do you reckon it’s worth asking for a different pill?

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Low dose cialis is usually much easier on the side effect end. You take 5-10mg daily

xxxmanfan.bsky.social•95 days ago

Gotcha. Yeah this is what I take. Low dose 2x a day, sometimes just once.

thetozzer.bsky.social•95 days ago

Ta mate. I’ll ask the doc for that instead

bigcoach8x8.bsky.social•95 days ago

Or Trimix!

otterbuffalo.bsky.social•94 days ago

Where is a good place to get Trimix?

bigcoach8x8.bsky.social•94 days ago

The best is https://revformen.com, home of Dr. Trimix‼️

jameslastrange.bsky.social•94 days ago

Same but opposite, I’m on the smaller side so I’ve always been self-conscious and consequently trouble staying hard

magnus22cm.bsky.social•95 days ago

Thanks for talking about this issue

bluecake1300.bsky.social•94 days ago

Thank u so much for sharing that

gruffbearftl.bsky.social•94 days ago

I love trimix. God's gift to man IMHO 🍆 💦

swanny1990.bsky.social•38 days ago

Yes! It works better and faster than the alternatives!!!

reynolds79.bsky.social•95 days ago

Thank you 4 sharing that ❤️

bubbahgumbo.bsky.social•95 days ago

It takes all the right stuff to publicly share that information. Bravo, Zaddy. Not only are you a super sexy man, you're a kind soul with a generous heart.

gingerdad75.bsky.social•94 days ago

What if you're on BP pills? I don't think you can mix both?

kinkylondonbear.bsky.social•94 days ago

I take lisdexamdetime and dexamfetamine - I’d be nothing without tadalafil

jessterbar.bsky.social•95 days ago

Do you like Trimix?

auguststxxx.bsky.social•94 days ago

And please enjoy this 4 hour erection, because I certainly will. Hehe

auguststxxx.bsky.social•94 days ago

Thank you for this post. I have so many self esteem issues with this. I just feel like even if you're hot as fuck, my cock is still going to be nervous.

majykxtc.bsky.social•95 days ago

What is trimix?

bigcoach8x8.bsky.social•95 days ago

It’s an injection in the side of your penis. It’s been around since the 80’s and most porn stars use it. You get as hard as you did at 17 for 2-3 hours. It’s amazing. It was invented by Johns Hopkins after they prematurely removed a lot of prostates that didn’t need removing.

junglejim-ps.bsky.social•95 days ago

Love that this something that can be discussed openly and honestly here.

junglejim-ps.bsky.social•95 days ago

Preach!

mnverse.bsky.social•95 days ago

This. This is what gay hookup culture needs. Open honesty about our bodies, and the reality of our body’s functions. Love this. Thank you for posting 🧡

xxxmanfan.bsky.social•95 days ago

💯! Gay men’s culture in general need it!

doschain98.bsky.social•95 days ago

You don't even have to see a doctor anymore. With companies like bluechew you can do everything online and only have an initial 10 minute video chat. Also, even online it's still an fsa eligible expense. Don't have an ed problem per se but I am a slut that is diabetic and a smoker so ✔️

zaddytony.bsky.social•95 days ago

Get my Viagra from Roman lol
My cialis from my doctor 😂

doschain98.bsky.social•95 days ago

Bluechew has both, generic, and let's you do an "emergency" order. Even had the daily pills as an option.

thepiggyhole.bsky.social•95 days ago

Thanks for this - and the growing thread that follows. This is the type of real conversations we should be having here. Thank you for sharing Tony!

jaxonrichards.bsky.social•95 days ago

I have nerve damage from the waist down thanks to the COVID vaccine in 2021. Paralyzed me from the waist down for 5 days and landed me in the hospital. Sometimes I can’t get hard and sometimes I can’t stay hard. Bottoming has become almost out of the question now. So I empathize with your thoughts.

pmgw81.bsky.social•94 days ago

Hey buddy. Thanks for sharing this and being vulnerable with us ❤️. I've had similar problems recently on and off and it helps to hear it.

frying-pan-5467.bsky.social•94 days ago

Good to know!

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