I always trying to look nice because I did what I want to do and people start saying like, "Oh, you are so kind."
So kindness become a curse for me. When people ask me something, I'll do it since I'm nice so I need to act like one. I just realised that people opinions used to matter A LOT.
So kindness become a curse for me. When people ask me something, I'll do it since I'm nice so I need to act like one. I just realised that people opinions used to matter A LOT.
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Like when I enter university I didn't think of, "Well this is what I can afford since I'm not studying enough to get scholarship"
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I was thinking, "I am smart so this is not where I belong to! People going to make fun of me they are going to not believe that I am smart anymore!"
But now that I realised, your life is FUCKED if you focus on what people's think about you.
I still act like decent human being but whether they perceived me as good or bad, asshole