This is your reminder that nonbinary doesn’t mean ‘Woman Lite’. It means nonbinary. Stop it with ‘female body’ this, ‘no male’ that. Gag me with a spoon I don’t want to see bio-essentialism and AFAB supremacy bullshit in my queer spaces. If that’s what you subscribe to kindly fuck right off. - ThreadSky

artbytaggerung.bsky.social • 96 days ago

This is your reminder that nonbinary doesn’t mean ‘Woman Lite’. It means nonbinary. Stop it with ‘female body’ this, ‘no male’ that. Gag me with a spoon I don’t want to see bio-essentialism and AFAB supremacy bullshit in my queer spaces. If that’s what you subscribe to kindly fuck right off.

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evbelknap.bsky.social•96 days ago

💯 ‘Oh we know it’s a woman only event but that just means no men it totally includes you’ Except it doesn’t. We both know your invitation is appearance based.

princeofbards.bsky.social•96 days ago

thank you for this because FR

namelesswrench.bsky.social•95 days ago

I feel like I've had to say this every other month since I first came out it's exhausting.

artbytaggerung.bsky.social•95 days ago

I feel ya. My circle stays pretty small to cut down on nonsense but that doesn’t change random interactions.

sunkernplus.bsky.social•95 days ago

Thank you even as a tme afab nonbinary person who wants low dose t I don't want a "male body" or a "female body" ideally I'd have a genderless robot body but I can't implant my consciousness into a computer yet

artbytaggerung.bsky.social•95 days ago

I’ve been saying for years if I could get an altered carbon synth and switch out Aesthetics as I pleased I’d do it in a heartbeat. Alas 😔

luneevenfall.bsky.social•96 days ago

Real. Nonbinary is nonbinary. This also counts for NBs who still use "gendered" pronouns, just because a person uses them doesn't make them woman or man lite
like imagine having an identity that's like "I am not a man or a woman" only for people to start on "woman bodied" and "man bodied" bullshit

luneevenfall.bsky.social•96 days ago

You're just doing two genders bullshit but with a new coat of paint because in your head, you cannot think of a nonbinary person as neither a man or a woman. They feel like they HAVE to assign some kind of gender to us.
To them, I will always be woman lite.

artbytaggerung.bsky.social•96 days ago

Yup. It’s very, very annoying. What’s in someone’s pants doesn’t make them somehow morally superior, and enbies don’t owe anyone androgyny, even with our pronouns. (Although me personally anything gendered is massively Nope but I don’t pretend that’s the only enby experience).

luneevenfall.bsky.social•96 days ago

I get that totally. For me it's a sliding scale. I don't necessarily hate all gendered terms (the person who self-refers to themselves as a "prince" here lol) but generally feminine terms are upsetting to me.

autonomuse.bsky.social•95 days ago

I really relate to this thread, thanks for posting. I def struggle with being percieved masc due to my body.

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