people gotta start somewhere. Also there's a lot of women and femmes and pretty men who never hear a critical word about their behavior or words being incongruous, because that's "not being civil or kind." So a lot of bullshit is allowed to float.
They're two beliefs that you can arrive at completely separately, without thinking about how one affects the other. Not everyone is going to do introspection on their beliefs without being prompted to do so.
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I need this quote framed.