I had so many initial interactions on one site like:
[them]: "what's your name?"
b_b_: "you can just call me bb
[them: "yeah but what's your real name?"
b`_b
Jesus. I'm literally sexting with an OF girl with her location on her profile and I played like I didn't know we were in the same metro area till she brought it up because I didn't want her feeling unsafe lmao
I hate it when they tell me they knew me in the military... Like great, now I have to hope you're not one of the ones who abused me and/or will try to dox me since they know my real name if they have good enough memory.
So sorry to hear that, Trinity. I’d hope that at the very least the ones reaching out to you at all have no ill incentives towards you. On the bright side, at least if you know they’re following you, then you can put up some defenses or contingencies.
The moment that I realized some people would try to use my chosen career against me by “exposing” me, I took back all the power I could by “exposing” myself. Obviously that’s not a perfect solution for everyone though. Every now and then someone tells my family AGAIN what I do, like it matters 🙄
I’ve always wanted to legally change my name anyways so I might one day to what I go by now since it’s what I wanted to change it to, haha. But I also really don’t want to deal with hoops I’ll have to jump through to get my military benefits updated with the new name cause I’d imagine it’s a bitch.
Haha, I’d literally move. I’m far too filled with social anxiety to have people keeping tabs on me that I don’t know 😭 Reminds me of a creator I knew that moved like 1500 miles and was afraid she was being stalked, but she also posts her EXACT location several times a day, so valid fear.
SAME FR. 🫣 Luckily it's only happened in a couple big cities I've been to. 😅 I don't post location EVERRR unless I'm LONG gone omg. I'm in a small down so as soon as I get recognized locally, I'm outta here 🫣
I literally check all the location stats I have available from all my sites so I notice if anything fishy ever happens. Not good for your anxiety, but let me know if you ever want tips. It’d be easy to tell if you’ve been a local celebrity 😂
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[them]: "what's your name?"
b_b_: "you can just call me bb
[them: "yeah but what's your real name?"
b`_b
And I was like WTF