For those of you that use any/all pronouns, do you have a preference of how you are addressed? Do you want ppl to specifically change up your pronouns frequently or are you fine with whatever any time? Share your pronoun stories here.
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I’ve been identifying as gender-fluid and recently started being more open about using any pronouns. In everyday life I haven’t really had anyone use anything other than she/her, though one of my coworkers used they/them for me recently and I was surprised at how happy it made me feel. 🥹
I appreciate the use of any pronouns and I'm fine with whatever at any time! It feels accurate to how I feel about my own gender which is just.. I don't really care how it's perceived. I'm definitely someone who presents as female mostly but I still really like it when people just use whatever!!
I don’t really have a preference, I don’t really get upset if someone genders me differently than how I’m feeling because it can literally change by the hour so there’s no point in correcting if the next hour it’s correct again. Most often it’s he or they but I grew up with she and most call me VV
Most call me she in my personal life due to how I present usually and how they knew me when I was little, but I’m okay with that. He or they do make me happy though.
I love this! Would you consider yourself gender fluid or do you mostly just change your presentation or other? (Only if you feel comfortable answering)
I identify as male, gender non-conforming. It's just got a nicer ring to it than 'crossdresser'. In practice it means I might present towards either end of the gender spectrum or straight down the middle, depending on the day.
I don’t like to say I have a preference bc I do like when people switch things up(they usually don’t though) but I do usually refer myself with they, sometimes he or she depending on how masc/fem I feel or going along with a joke/song etc
I say they/he/she since I look “fem” enough that people dont+
I usually go with she/her, it's my birth gender and I'm used to it. But when people call me "girl" or call me "ma'am", miss, madam, I just cringe and wanna throw up. Those words just feel SO wrong. And I think it's fun when people online use he/him when they dunno my gender at all, so I like it.
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i dont bother trying to educate strangers just people i care about
That said, I'm happiest when the pronouns selected generally align with my presentational intent.
I say they/he/she since I look “fem” enough that people dont+