Anyone who lets me know directly or indirectly that I have failed to serve their benefit in any meaningful way—big or small—I have to break off from.
Why would I stay around people who make me feel like a burden they are just tolerating out of charity because they’re so “kind?”
Why would I stay around people who make me feel like a burden they are just tolerating out of charity because they’re so “kind?”
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That is a toxic dynamic—not beneficial in either direction.
I just feel devoid of worth and miserable in their company.
And whether I am there makes no difference to them. My disappearing from their life makes no difference.
is as good as telling me my existence has no use or significance.
So it will not make any difference at all for it to end.