I’ve also had the unfortunate opportunity to experience this as well 🙃 It reminds me of when people insist that they’re “nice” but are only saying that because they want to convince you of something they’re not (without actually proving it through action)
I think no matter what the interpretation is (well-intentioned or not on their end), they failed to keep their word and it’ll always be disappointing and to some degree disrespectful to realize that they didn’t mean it
*Especially* when they actively do the opposite, that makes it much worse :/
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Is it that they never mean anything they say
or are they just so inept they can only ever achieve the opposite of whatever they intended
So their actions can work toward the opposite effect at all times in blatant hypocritical contrast to their words, and that does not bear questioning?
*Especially* when they actively do the opposite, that makes it much worse :/