I find it hard to find friends here. Maybe it’s because I like to talk to people first and get to know them before I purchase. I don’t purchase all the time but I do purchase. I just like to have a connection first. I don’t ask for freebies and I don’t send dick pics. I just like to converse first
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That's the problem. Time is a commodity. The conversation is part of the product as much as the photos you buy are.
There's nothing wrong with that 💙
The problem with trying to engage with sex workers that way, is that as gig workers, time is literally money for us.
Often, especially those of us who offer gfe, fantasy services, health options etc. also want that intimacy with our clients.
But you have to respect us, and pay us first to become connected.
You have to invest something of yourself into us first, and show us that you care in a way that matters to us in order for us to open to you.
Because you owe us that much. You owe us that show of interest, trust, and respect in order to be intimate with us.