There are no degrees in that sense, either you’re congruent with your natal sexed body or you’re not. And it might be true that transphobes doesn’t make a distinction between a transsexual or a transvestite. But the average person clearly does👇🏻 - ThreadSky

marzipaniah.bsky.social • 42 days ago

There are no degrees in that sense, either you’re congruent with your natal sexed body or you’re not.

And it might be true that transphobes doesn’t make a distinction between a transsexual or a transvestite.

But the average person clearly does👇🏻

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marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

Make a difference between someone who’s medically evaluated, on a medical path, trying to the best of their ability to present female and at the very least castrated or with a vagina.

Vs a person who enjoys their natal genitalia and ‘doesn’t owe any femininity’.

timetogetreal.bsky.social•42 days ago

fact: predators could as easily claim to be transMAN to accewss ladies spaces..many like you seem to want to give credence to idea only who seek full surgical transition have "valid" trans identity..prob? NOBODY on RW makes that distinction and your "pick me, I'm good trans" BS won't save you..sorry

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

You don’t seem to understand that watering down the concept of trans is HARMFUL to actual trans people?

timetogetreal.bsky.social•42 days ago

all that said..that isn't to say bits like there is no valid concern around trans in sports etc..for example, obviously a bio male shouldn't be able to go through male puberty then one day just decide they are trans and start playing on female sports teams..what "watering down" do you mean, really?

timetogetreal.bsky.social•42 days ago

you dont seem to understand YOU do NOT get to define identity of others nor do you get to determine validity of their identity. what YOU are doing is NO different than the far RW who are seeking to make ALL trans identity, including your own self-identified superior trans identity, valid. get real

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

Yes. Trans = across from - on the opposite side of.

What is the body that is opposite of a male body? What is the genitalia opposite of a penis? The hormone that the opposite reproductive system to the male one is organized around? The phenotypic expression opposite of the male one?

timetogetreal.bsky.social•42 days ago

what is your point? think about it before answering

clearpill.bsky.social•42 days ago

It's not the RW you're talking to here. It's the dissident LW. Or maybe the beginnings of the fed-up-with-all-the-nonsense middle.

clearpill.bsky.social•42 days ago

I'm still sorting it out but somehow I feel like I'd be more comfortable with a person like you or Brianna being who my kids think of when they think of trans people than the self-id folks because I get the sense you wouldn't say "if you think you might be you are".

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

Transsexuals and transvestites are two separate groups and even if we were to argue that they’re just a lower intense version of a similar thing.

We live in a material world where sexed phenotypic expression matters, and behavioral patterns as well.

timetogetreal.bsky.social•42 days ago

transvestites would be, while even still not the same, more akin to what some call "AGP" today..it's actual fetish..but trans identity itself and those who are nonbinary/genderqueer etc in general are NOT expressing "fetish". many like you need to realize RW/GOP makes NO distinction between the two

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

Sometimes, these alternative identities are linked to sexual fetishes, and other times, they are associated with dissociation. For example, you might encounter an adult who wishes to be ‘sexless’ like a child due to trauma.👇🏻

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

Someone might believe that because their personality does not align with typical traits of a man or woman, they must be ‘something else.’

But there’s no logical explanation for this phenomenon, and when you scratch the surface it isn’t anything like transsexualism.

timetogetreal.bsky.social•42 days ago

who the F are YOU to determine that for them?

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

I actually don’t agree with you. I also don’t believe nonbinary/genderqueer those sort of things relate to reality.

You cannot be outside of the sex-binary or bimodal spectrum. You’re either male, female or a combination of the two.

And you could only be trans between those modes.

timetogetreal.bsky.social•42 days ago

how do they not relate to reality rather than YOU think YOU are so exalted you get to determine validity of others identity when really? there is ZERO factual basis why your identity is any more valid than theirs..and those who aren't like YOU are less valid..you/Wu/"true trans" etc aren't special

kencf0618.bsky.social•42 days ago

I'm a material girl in a material world
And I'm a material girl.
~Madonna

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

There’s enough indications for cross-sex brain differentiation for the classical transsexual cohort that sex affirming care and legal reassignment seems reasonable.

Those people want align their bodies to their brain.👇🏻

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

They don’t want to say ‘I know my brain is female, and I’m a woman on the inside… that’s enough’ and then proceed to demand access to female-only spaces.

They don’t want make a spectacle out of themselves and make others uncomfortable like that.

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

I knew my brain was female since the age of 2, it was pure instinct that my neural body map was mapped out for the opposite body.

I started transition at 16, but didn’t use a female locker room until my SRS at age of 20.

Never would I’ve wanted to embarrass myself or make others uncomfortable.

marzipaniah.bsky.social•42 days ago

It doesn’t make sense to grant anyone based on self-ID access, but it also doesn’t make sense to put someone like myself or Brianna in a male-only space.

I think most logical people do understand the nuances here.

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