Cold this be that my mum struggles with being faced with these the difficulty of these feelings putting them down to parenting shame, responsibility for my feelings..
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I try to see the optimistic outcome with most people, with my mum it is less easy. Repeated dismissal of feelings have harmed us both with no real interjection other than when my dad was trying to keep us both placated.
Complicated emotions the deserve counsellor support. Both mum and i can feel exhausted, we connect less, communicate less, unwilling to start talking, finding no route to a good outcome. We are stuck.
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We still talk, though in a very limited way, often keeping visits or phone calls short, or not doing much together when we see each other.
Planning is difficult to my mum's health