Ways to help people displaced by LA wildfires (from someone displaced by the LA wildfires) First, some thoughts. I know from working in death + grief how hard it can be when you feel you can’t help someone who is experiencing a loss. - ThreadSky

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sarahcalavera.bsky.social • 70 days ago

Ways to help people displaced by LA wildfires (from someone displaced by the LA wildfires)

First, some thoughts. I know from working in death + grief how hard it can be when you feel you can’t help someone who is experiencing a loss.

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sarahcalavera.bsky.social•70 days ago

Even those who weren’t displaced or still have a home standing, are experiencing a type of survivors guilt.

In my community we say “Tu lucha es mi lucha,” your fight or struggle is my struggle - and that right there is the true spirit of Los Angeles.

sarahcalavera.bsky.social•70 days ago

I know it can be v hard to ask for or accept help but active participation & contribution allows us all to be in community with one another—I think we all need that, so leave room for the helpers, too

sarahcalavera.bsky.social•70 days ago

Here’s the practical info: When someone’s grieving we often advise folks to refrain from saying “Let me know what I can do!”

sarahcalavera.bsky.social•70 days ago

While well meaning, grievers/people experiencing loss usually don’t have the capacity to think beyond the immediate pain, so offering something specific or taking concrete action can be incredibly helpful

sarahcalavera.bsky.social•70 days ago

There are many volunteer efforts, go-fund-mes, etc going on, but here are some immediate more 1-on-1 type things you can do directly if you have fam or a friend you want to help out that could be helpful from what I’m seeing here:

sarahcalavera.bsky.social•70 days ago

Food: Many places are offering food but it may be challenging to get. some ppl don’t have transportation, have kids & scared animals, are disabled, food allergies, etc. Gift cards for groceries, Postmates (yes, I know they have unethical practices so, do what you feel is best!) are helpful

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