Am I a bad person for trying to sabotage my talking stage cos she lives far and I'm not interested in a long distance relationship or any relationship whatsoever?🧍🏾‍♂️We met at groove (through a friend) in Kimberley when I was working in the NC but I'm in PTA now and manje she's really applying pressure - ThreadSky

lesiba.bsky.social • 109 days ago

Am I a bad person for trying to sabotage my talking stage cos she lives far and I'm not interested in a long distance relationship or any relationship whatsoever?🧍🏾‍♂️We met at groove (through a friend) in Kimberley when I was working in the NC but I'm in PTA now and manje she's really applying pressure

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mfanaopila.bsky.social•109 days ago

The same way you're telling us, tell her hawu

lesiba.bsky.social•109 days ago

Bro eish I don't know man. I think I'm just gonna block her, report her number for scam and delete it I don't have any other choice.

mfanaopila.bsky.social•108 days ago

Just say you're afraid of being honest bro. Bc I doubt this is the best option. Now she'll have to deal with the pain of losing you AND the pain of ghosting 😥 double homicide

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Yeah but being told you're unwanted is worse, no?

anne-ngwenya.bsky.social•109 days ago

You have and you don’t wanna use it like… yohhh ai bandla

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Eish you guys don't understand but it's okay.

anne-ngwenya.bsky.social•108 days ago

heislindo.bsky.social•108 days ago

Nope you're not a bad person I would do the same thing in your position.

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Thanks bro I knew someone would understand 😩

anne-ngwenya.bsky.social•109 days ago

Be straight up, sabotaging yani when there’s plenty of words to choose from…

lesiba.bsky.social•109 days ago

I don't know what to say to her without tearing up her heart you see. I wish I never went to that club yesses

anne-ngwenya.bsky.social•109 days ago

Ghosting her kona? What will it do? Intentionally sabotaging yona? What will that do?

Tell her the truth you just posted nje… you’re not fit to do long distance.

lesiba.bsky.social•109 days ago

Yoh okay.

2melow.bsky.social•109 days ago

😭😭

koena.bsky.social•108 days ago

Just be honest with her??

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Ya I hear you guys I might just that and then block her.

simplyteddyyy.bsky.social•109 days ago

Ghosting and breadcrumbing are a no-no, just straight up tell the poor girl you can’t be on a long distance r/ship

lesiba.bsky.social•109 days ago

Eish but I'm scared of hurting her like that, she's coloured nyana wabona, okay she's sweet but still nje. So I wanna ghost for a while come back later and LIE to her and say I have found someone blah blah blah.

simplyteddyyy.bsky.social•109 days ago

Nah ghosting is much more worse bro, just tell her straight. We girls prefer honesty over being ghosted

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Eish I don't know but thanks for the advice Kuhle 🤍.

simplyteddyyy.bsky.social•108 days ago

Anytime

lululuvvsyou.bsky.social•108 days ago

There's no need for all that, just be honest with her man

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Sounds like a lot of work but yeah I will be honest with her.

misskerrym.bsky.social•108 days ago

I will say it again you're not a good person😭ukhohlakele🤞🏼

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Don't say that Kerry💔😭😭😭

misskerrym.bsky.social•108 days ago

Nah fr thou. Send her a message and block her

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

I kind of hear you 🥺.
https://bsky.app/profile/misskerrym.bsky.social/post/3lb4sampxjs2d

misskerrym.bsky.social•108 days ago

Yeah😭... But word it nicely. Be gentle. She's just a girl

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Okay I'll try my best, thanks Karry 🤍

lovenqo.bsky.social•108 days ago

Just be honest with her, that’s all that’s needed. You’re draining yourself for into ongayifuni.

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Eish you know I thought she'd get an ick by now but lutho so idk maybe I'll give honesty a chance, it might work who knows.

lovenqo.bsky.social•108 days ago

It definitely will work, if she’s hard headed go ghost.😭😭

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Okay 😭😭😭

zezulu.bsky.social•108 days ago

Please don’t ghost her😭😭 just tell her straight up that you aren’t interested in a long distance relationship

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Yeah but what if she starts bargaining on some "I'll move to PTA, let's just try" wara wara. Yoh nna I'm just a chilled guy I don't want drama.

zezulu.bsky.social•108 days ago

Dude you said it yourself that you don’t want a relationship whatsoever. Tell her that. If you were able to share that with us here you can clearly tell the poor girl.

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

Ya phela I'm not afraid of you guys wabona that's why I shared here 🧍🏾‍♂️.

zezulu.bsky.social•108 days ago

Why are you afraid of her?

lesiba.bsky.social•108 days ago

She's kind of a psycho.

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