Hello my beautiful butthole buccaneers! What’s on your mind today? How are you coping with *gestures vaguely*? What can we do to make things easier for you? You are my found family. Your fight is my fight ❤️ #TITT - ThreadSky | a Reddit-style client for Bluesky

spicycanuck.bsky.social • 16 days ago

Hello my beautiful butthole buccaneers! What’s on your mind today? How are you coping with *gestures vaguely*? What can we do to make things easier for you? You are my found family. Your fight is my fight ❤️

#TITT

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renayw-s.bsky.social•15 days ago

Things are, yeah like you said. A lot. And I don’t feel good today 😭

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Noooooo 😭 I haven’t been feeling well for the last couple days either. And Theo had Fifth Disease over the weekend (which I just discovered was a thing as of this past weekend lol)

renayw-s.bsky.social•15 days ago

Theo! I just looked it up. Hope he’s better 🫂

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

He’s good now!! Thank goodness one of Randy’s best friends is a pediatric doctor so he’s like our on call pediatrician hahaha

renayw-s.bsky.social•15 days ago

That’s great!

blackdelphinium.bsky.social•16 days ago

I am so sick of snow, Emma, you have no idea...

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spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

That’s DISGUSTING

blackdelphinium.bsky.social•16 days ago

It is too much snow

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

That’s what my hometown in Canada looked like when I was there. I do not miss it

blackdelphinium.bsky.social•16 days ago

I am so grateful the Kiddo has this week off for winter break already

annettefb.bsky.social•16 days ago

🥶

blackdelphinium.bsky.social•16 days ago

All of me hurts from trying to keep the driveway clear enough for emergencies

annettefb.bsky.social•16 days ago

It's exhausting!

madderslightly.bsky.social•15 days ago

Well that’s just fucking rude on the part of Mother Nature.

blackdelphinium.bsky.social•15 days ago

It really is

auvilion.bsky.social•16 days ago

Elections are happening on sunday in Germany (the ones where evilon endorsed the fascist party) I'm so scared. Keep your fingers crossed for all the impossible miracles, pirate crew!

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Oh gosh. Sending so many good vibes!!!!

annettefb.bsky.social•16 days ago

🫂

redshiftsinger.bsky.social•15 days ago

Here’s hoping enough of your country is watching the absolute shitshow here and recognizing it as a cautionary tale!

auvilion.bsky.social•15 days ago

oh yeah that would be great! I 100% feel like we're just a few months behind you though. and tbh, m*sk's "only the [fascist party] can save Germany" feels more like a treat than an opinion. sigh. but let's manifest that enough people actually have humanity (or at least self-preservation instinct)

redshiftsinger.bsky.social•15 days ago

Shit’s so deeply fucked here but maybe, if we’re all so lucky, at least a cautionary tale for everyone else that electing fascists fucks your economy.

thewildbluesky.bsky.social•16 days ago

i’m on day 16 of flu — much better but still congested & my face feels like it’s filled with cement so that’s fun. partner is in the same boat, but we’ve scheduled some “ugh we’re both ill” sex later so maybe that will help? 🤧🤷🏻‍♀️😂

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

SIXTEEN?! Girl uggghhhh. lol good for you for even attempting sick sex bc that is not something that would even remotely cross my mind 😂

thewildbluesky.bsky.social•16 days ago

update: husband is going to read to the kids. he pops his head in our room and says “i just need to say that i cannot stress enough how UN-acrobatic i am going to be. like…barely moving. close to dead” hot. also not NOT a vibe right now 😂

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

I just cackled so loud 💀💀💀

thewildbluesky.bsky.social•16 days ago

ha, i mean i don’t think either of us expects it to be good in the traditional sense, more like we would like some intimacy outside of lying side-by-side watching reruns of “murder, she wrote” and asking “how’s yer head?” ah
marriage.

abedofmoss.bsky.social•16 days ago

Depression is kicking my ass but I’m coping by reading OFMD fics and binge watching Game Grumps

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

What’s Game Grumps??? Sending you love 🫂🫂🫂

abedofmoss.bsky.social•16 days ago

They’re YouTubers who play video games. Really funny guys that play all sorts of different stuff. Great background noise for when you’re crafting. 🩵🩵

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Oh that sounds fun!

rosymegglemoth.bsky.social•16 days ago

@ericavee.bsky.social and I are going to the mall of america and ignoring the horrors today

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Love this for you

mgm1229.bsky.social•15 days ago

Sending you so much love for always asking. 🙋🏻‍♀️💖

captaincharlemagne.bsky.social•15 days ago

I have to travel away from a person and a place I don’t want to, today. I don’t like it. 🫠

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

I hate that 😭 I’m sorry 🫂🫂🫂

captaincharlemagne.bsky.social•15 days ago

Yeaaahhh I’ll be back and permanently very soon but still! Booo!

joules542.bsky.social•15 days ago

I am having some minor aches and pains (unhelpful advice from Dr. is to weigh less).
My more immediate problem is that I can't seem to tell my mom (nicely) that I am a fully-grown, middle-aged adult, and that my body is none of her business. #BoundaryFail #JewishMomGuilt #Helppp🙃

joules542.bsky.social•15 days ago

I don't have a formal diagnosis, but I briefly talked to an ADHD coach this morning about how to work WITH my brain instead of AGAINST it, and I hope to work with her, once my funds are not so depleted. I also told her all about #OFMD. 😆🏴‍☠️

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Oh that’s great to hear!!!!

tresdem.bsky.social•16 days ago

Doing ok today for the most part. Coping by taking deeeep breaths rofl

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

redshiftsinger.bsky.social•16 days ago

My butthole is on my mind today, to be bluntly honest (I have a minor but annoying recurrent digestive issue that I’m still working on sorting out and it was acting up this weekend, I’ll spare the details but suffice to say I’ve been a bit uncomfy!)

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Uuuggghhhhh as someone who had to have rectocele surgically repaired, I feel you

redshiftsinger.bsky.social•16 days ago

My issue is not a rectocele but if I can’t get it to stop being a problem it could end up causing that. I’d rather prevent, if possible, than have to have surgery about it.

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Uuugggghhhh yeah for sure! Mine was from childbirth which apparently does a number on your pelvic floor lol. Who knew!

redshiftsinger.bsky.social•16 days ago

Yeah my mom thinks two kids played a part in hers. I’m just intermittently constipated 😅

thepeoplezprincess.bsky.social•16 days ago

I have Hirshsprung’s disease, I feel your pain, literally!

musicmylight.bsky.social•16 days ago

I have been struggling to find a second job, and I live in a college town where all the jobs with the hours I need are taken by college students. I’m probably going to have to take a job somewhere I’ve been boycotting. I’m frustrated and broke

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

That sucks so much. I’m frustrated for you

self-induljennt.bsky.social•15 days ago

Been in my head so much lately. Worried about my kid. He's 21 and figuring things out. I'm so proud of him. But at the same time I'm just mad that things are so hard and wish I had more power to make it easier. BUT he's doing it and I'm cheering for him so hard.

And I'm so tired of snow.

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Oh gosh. That’s a hard time, 21. I’m sure it means the absolute world to him that he’s got such an amazing person supporting him ❤️❤️❤️

aperfectday.bsky.social•15 days ago

Just gonna send some extra love your way. More than usual. Which is a lot. 💜💜

alias-cocaine.bsky.social•16 days ago

I’m struggling with adjusting from living at Disney world to back to real life. 😔

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Oh god that Disney comedown is ROUGH 🫂🫂🫂 (did you have the best time though???)

alias-cocaine.bsky.social•16 days ago

I had an amazing time! That’s also what makes it hard 🥲 I’ll be okay once I get used to my new routine. The good news is I’m channeling my sads through writing and it’s been super helpful

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Oh good! I mean, selfishly, it’s also been beneficial for me so thank you 😅

dkbb.bsky.social•16 days ago

My child is just waiting to be fired, even tho they have 11 years with MWAC (part of NPS) and nothing but stellar evaluations. This administration sucks eggs. And, the snow just never stops. #viewfromthedeck #toodamnmuchsnow #governmentemploymentgames

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spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Uggghhhhhh I hate that for you

eevla.bsky.social•15 days ago

I'm finally starting to feel better after four really rough months.

I hope that I have the space to pursue my hobbies and passions soon. I miss writing so much.

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Oh my love I’m so glad you’re finally starting to feel better!! I know how hard it’s been for you 🫂🫂🫂🫂 Keep being gentle with yourself. Ily!!!

eevla.bsky.social•15 days ago

You're the sweetest! 💜

Hope your Tuesday is lovely!

judysoranges.bsky.social•15 days ago

Looking forward to my Rhys birthday trip & getting to meet & hang with the crew but disgusted with the idea I will be even OLDER - ugh, I’m so old

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Girl the thought of me turning 40 this year is DISGUSTING, I get it lol

blandbeard.bsky.social•15 days ago

🤝🏼🤝🏼🤝🏼

judysoranges.bsky.social•15 days ago

The forties were my worst and best years. I wish I was 40 lol. In some ways it’s better now but ugh getting older is no fun.

ajmckay.bsky.social•15 days ago

Need to find a new job and I’m very anxious. Without going into too many details - this year is not starting off well.

At this point I’m just going to go sit in the gravy basket for a bit. 🫠

spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Oh friend 🫂 I’m so sorry. Sending you so much love

ajmckay.bsky.social•15 days ago

But I’m also dog sitting these two goons this week, which helps. 💜

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spicycanuck.bsky.social•15 days ago

Oh I love themmmmmmm

ajmckay.bsky.social•15 days ago

I’ve been here for 14 years - not perfect pay or work but I really culture and my coworkers. It just sucks.

ajmckay.bsky.social•15 days ago

*really like

amyshy.bsky.social•15 days ago

Ugh I'm in a similar boat. I'll be here 10 years in June. Love my managers, love my immediate team but they forced us all into new roles and I HATE IT.
But do I hate it more than I hate job hunting? That's where I'm sitting right now.
I hope 2025 brings awesome new opportunities for both of us 🫂

ajmckay.bsky.social•15 days ago

Wish you the best!

ourflagmeansjeff.bsky.social•16 days ago

mum has her surgery tomorrow and I am a 41 year old baby crying over the fact that mum hugs will never feel the same again (this is to distract from the bigger crying that my mum has cancer)

emilythedemily.bsky.social•16 days ago

Thinking of you, and your mum. As a fellow 41 year old with a Mum going through medical stuff, you’re reacting perfectly normally. ❤️

ourflagmeansjeff.bsky.social•16 days ago

crying like a baby!!! so normal!!! jks thank you, and I’m sorry to hear your fam’s going Through It too; I hope she fares so well 💜

stealthysiren.bsky.social•15 days ago

Sending you love and big hugs💜🫂🫂🫂

slowpiracy.bsky.social•15 days ago

Big hugs Jeffy 🫂🫂🫂

sewlikes.bsky.social•16 days ago

Big big squeezie hugs 🫂🫂🫂

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

Oh my love 🫂 having a sick parent is the fucking worst. Sending you both so much love. Do you mind if I check in with you later to see how you’re both faring??

ourflagmeansjeff.bsky.social•16 days ago

of course you can!!! I know there’s a whole truckload of sympathy in with that beautiful empathy of yours too 💜 I’m gonna be up with her next week so next TITT is gonna be the real hitter I reckon

tristan-cedar.bsky.social•16 days ago

I'm currently ignoring all the reasons to be depressed by watching a cosy YouTube video about stationery, drinking green tea and eating strawberry mochi.

spicycanuck.bsky.social•16 days ago

I think that sounds lovely