The point of a safe word in BDSM is to allow exploration of fantasies of prior-discussed non-consent, sadism/masochism, dominance, and bondage while ensuring participant safety.
The safe word is a hammer to break the glass of fantasy with.
It is literally enabling "non-ethical kinks" in fantasy.
The safe word is a hammer to break the glass of fantasy with.
It is literally enabling "non-ethical kinks" in fantasy.
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Evil is believing that kink is okay to do in reality, or that consent isn't necessary OOCly or in reality, or that participant OOC safety is optional.
1) Clear prior discussion. Set boundaries, safe words, and goals.
2) Respectful listening to your partner before, during, and after.
3) Aftercare and discussion of what to avoid and what was enjoyed.
Those policing your fantasies are in the wrong. That's not the LGBT+ way. That's someone violating your boundaries...and that's the real violation of consent.
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