Oh, by current social standards, I suppose that person really didn’t meet that mold. Didn’t stop me from admiring them. When dating, I was attracted to guys for their personalities and always thought it was because I was a wallflower. But as soon as they liked me back, things often fell apart - - ThreadSky

kalico-of-doom.bsky.social • 31 days ago

Oh, by current social standards, I suppose that person really didn’t meet that mold. Didn’t stop me from admiring them. When dating, I was attracted to guys for their personalities and always thought it was because I was a wallflower. But as soon as they liked me back, things often fell apart -

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kalico-of-doom.bsky.social•31 days ago

It wasn’t until I discovered the character of Alastor and the fandom surrounding Hazbin that I finally found a name for what I am: Ace. I’m happily married to the greatest guy and have a kiddo, so I don’t talk about it much since there’s a lot of common misconceptions surrounding asexuality and I -

kalico-of-doom.bsky.social•31 days ago

Get tired of explaining or defending myself over and over. But I’m very thankful for Hazbin and the gift of belonging it’s given me. Alastor is my strongest comfort character and I cling to him pretty firmly. I’ve made wonderful new friends through this fandom & have even started my own small -

kalico-of-doom.bsky.social•31 days ago

Business because of the art I’ve made. Which still just absolutely blows my mind. I mostly keep to myself and struggle to regularly socialize with more than 2 friends at a time, but I am just grateful overall for last 3 years. Looking forward to waving my pride flag from my little corner this year!

khornegod82.bsky.social•31 days ago

Wave that flag all you want. I didn't know much about what others went through. Thank you for sharing. Although I'm not what people consider normal, I'm on the autism spectrum and have been late in life diagnosed. I do fully support all of you and your struggles.

tinnedferrets.bsky.social•31 days ago

This was a great thread! It's relatable, too.

I always said to my friends - even before I realised I was ace - that I was more attracted to people's faces than I was to bodies. In fact, I found bodies to be slightly gross.

It all makes sense now because I wasn't looking at them sexually.

kalico-of-doom.bsky.social•31 days ago

I’ve always considered people to be aesthetically pleasing like a pretty vase or a work of art. Faces reveal emotions and personality, so I’m always drawn to them most. Hands, too, are fascinating. I used to think this was just the artist in me talking, but it’s definitely deeper than that!

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