⛔️rant/vent⛔️ ... .. . I am still moody from mama boo's comment.. Yesterday she scolded me. She said I shouldn't be playing video games. I need to only focus on weightless. I get it, I need to lose weight. But she makes the situation worse. Her comments about me my weight, looks, etc gets to me hard. - ThreadSky

emmixboo.bsky.social • 21 days ago

⛔️rant/vent⛔️
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I am still moody from mama boo's comment.. Yesterday she scolded me. She said I shouldn't be playing video games. I need to only focus on weightless. I get it, I need to lose weight. But she makes the situation worse. Her comments about me my weight, looks, etc gets to me hard.

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jesterlantern.bsky.social•21 days ago

I cant imagine how difficult that must be to go through, but regardless im sure youll make it out the other side of this okay

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

I will be okay! She just puts me in a bad mood 😭 so i took time to just relax

heroynex.vtubers.social•20 days ago

My parents are the same with my weight. Although I’m currently on the weight loss injection they imply that I’m not trying hard enough because I haven’t lost a lot of weight yet in *checks notes* 6 weeks .-.

Sending massive hugs to you 🫂💖

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

My current problem with injections too. I am also going to restart taking them but I have been putting them off. They get me nauseous but I did lose 30 pounds first box I took. So its a win/lose kinda thing. My hypothyroidism makes weightless impossible

jakkothepumpkin.bsky.social•21 days ago

Do what makes you happy Emmi, life stuff is important sure but what's the point if you can't chill & be happy too 🙂

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

I wish I could say that to her 😭 I fight everyday to just be happy! I will just keep aiming for that

shybeaniebear.vtubers.social•21 days ago

Awe emmi much love to you
Work at your own pace love and playing games has nothing to do with ur weight loss journey if anything gaming with friends is a good way to not be depressed keep doing you love

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

Yeah, thats what I try to do. Sksks she is just gonna be stressing me out due to my kid sister's wedding

froojee.bsky.social•21 days ago

You are awesome the way you are!
Here for you!
No one else can tell your self worth.
💚

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

That's very sweet of you. I just have to remind myself a lot.

froojee.bsky.social•20 days ago

Here for you homie.

mizokaya.stream•20 days ago

Jesus I’m so sorry, that’s an awful perspective for your mom to take :/

Playing video games has no bearing on handling weight and she’s being really disrespectful.

Any weight management needs to be done with a healthy mindset and that’s not it. You’ve got this, don’t listen to her 🫂🫂

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

Yeah, she knows i struggle with weightless too. Its not easy to lose at all. But I will stay positive and try to ignore the comments

mizokaya.stream•20 days ago

All the hugs, you’ve got this, at your own pace at that 🫂🫂

mendedpearl.bsky.social•21 days ago

🩵🫂

eliasjdodger.bsky.social•20 days ago

God I feel this 🫂
My advice is make weight loss a fun thing for you. Find exercise you enjoy, play music you love, make exercise 'your' thing over something that feels forced and then your mum might lay off the negative comments/gaming.
You gotta do that shit for you, and for the love of you.

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

Its so hard. I basically get super strict with what i eat. I have tried to lose weight but its si boring. I had fun doing ring fit and beatsaber. May have to do that again

eliasjdodger.bsky.social•20 days ago

Yeah fitness games can work for cardio absolutely! For me personally I read Danberu and other fighting manga (Ippo, Baki, Isshou Senkin) and they motivated me to do gym. That plus my custom gym playlist (metal mostly) and it makes it fun for me.
You've got to enjoy the process, that's what I learnt.

eliasjdodger.bsky.social•20 days ago

And this is coming from a person who got regular panic attacks at school during PE/has had anxieties around weight. I totally get where your coming from where it's hard. Even just small amounts of regular cardio is better than none! I believe in you 😊🤎

jjbaghead.bsky.social•21 days ago

i’m sorry :( please keep doing what makes you happy and don’t let others get you down. i hope mama boo comes to understand that making you upset like this will only stunt the progress she wants you to make.

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

Sadly, she thinks being "blunt" or "honest" helps a person. So I am just going to ignore her for a while. I will stay positive uwu

jjbaghead.bsky.social•20 days ago

yeahh i know people like that too :( there’s a huge difference between honesty and hostility. i’m glad you’re staying positive, you got this! ^^

whovian2.bsky.social•20 days ago

Fuck. That’s awful. She has absolutely no right to make you feel bad for the things you enjoy. Lord knows I still get that all the time from *my* family, and I’m 54! Keep doing what you love. Keep loving what you do.

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

Thank you!! Yeah even when I was considered skinny for my weight, she still said I was fat. Now that I am fat, she makes it worse. So I am just gonna stay positive hopefully get better little by little

aspendracaena.bsky.social•21 days ago

You can still play games and tend to your health as well. I'm sorry she's being so hard on you. Your body actually needs rest as well as physical activity to be at it's best, or you could cause yourself injury. Slow, steady health changes are the ones that stick, not sudden changes

emmixboo.bsky.social•20 days ago

Yeah I use to play Ring Fit to work out. Probably will again cause regular working out makes me borer. I get dizzy easily agaha. But I will stay positive. I was just moody about her comment

aspendracaena.bsky.social•20 days ago

It's understandable. I know the times when I've most worked on getting and staying in shape have been times when I feel good about myself, not when people are saying hurtful things to me.

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