If you make false allegations against a trans woman, “predator-jacket” her in order to get her socially murdered - you have made an enemy of me for life. If you’re also a trans woman, this is particularity low. Be prepared for their funeral if you do it. It’s what this song is about. - ThreadSky

uboatheflesh.bsky.social • 1 day ago

If you make false allegations against a trans woman, “predator-jacket” her in order to get her socially murdered - you have made an enemy of me for life. If you’re also a trans woman, this is particularity low.

Be prepared for their funeral if you do it.

It’s what this song is about.

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uboatheflesh.bsky.social•1 day ago

I’ve had several friends “hot allostatic load’d” recently. I went to the funeral years ago of a doll this happened to. I’ve talked dolls out of suicide when this happens. Most of the time the “allegations” are based on ableism - weaponising the dolls own trauma and autism against her. “The ick”

uboatheflesh.bsky.social•1 day ago

I’ve also seen it to every single black trans woman I know. Most autistic ones. And sadly it often happens from one trans woman to another - throwing rocks in glass houses, weaponising disposability to win some high school level conflict.

It’s happened to me. I tried to kill myself from it.

uboatheflesh.bsky.social•1 day ago

Hell, when a doll does do something bad, I ask, “is this worth the death penalty?”. If the answer is no - calling in with the community is the best option. Anything less risks not only a suicide - but destroying a community and perpetuating trauma cycles.

uboatheflesh.bsky.social•1 day ago

So unless you genuinely can prove a doll deserves the death penalty and it cannot be resolved internally to the community - reducing harm to everybody - say by getting psychiatric help or aid with accountability and reparations - shut the fuck up as I will treat you as a threat.

uboatheflesh.bsky.social•1 day ago

But that is assuming the doll did something wrong. Predator-jacketing a trans woman you don’t like or due to your own mental health issues is itself a heinous form of violence.

We need to treat his behaviour as attempted murder. There is a reason reactionaries love to do it us - it’s genocidal.

uboatheflesh.bsky.social•1 day ago

So if you think some rigid obligation to “believe survivors” means believing whatever allegations are against the transfemme without critical insight or investigation - you are a threat to our community. It just sounds like you believe any DARVO attempt without question.

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