I don't think I'm intimidating but I've been told I am. - ThreadSky

alexxxcoal.bsky.social • 90 days ago

I don't think I'm intimidating but I've been told I am.

1. do you consider yourself intimidating or approachable??

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Before I met you, I was expecting you to be less approachable, judging from your shared stories of what you have gone through. And gladly, I was completely wrong :) A happy person even to just vibe with

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

Thank you ❤️

mxylptlk.bsky.social•90 days ago

You couldn’t have been nicer…

jarektral66.bsky.social•90 days ago

For me, I think it was less you being intimidating and more the situation of meeting you in person for the first time. Both the pressure of not embarrassing myself and getting used to direct interaction. As we spent more time together and your kind personality shined, it became easy very quickly.

darksidelatex.bsky.social•90 days ago

I have been told that I am.

guerresok.bsky.social•90 days ago

Can relate. Big cuddly sensitive teddy bear here, yet unfortunately suffer from male equivalent resting B face... As I once dubbed, FU face. Everyone always thinks I'm intimidating. One of my sups at work thought I hated them at first.. I was like uh, nope, just the way I look. Can't change it. 😢

schnerkin.bsky.social•89 days ago

Probably the longsword you carry and periodic authentic suit of armor you walk around in, but really that's just stereotyping.

saccm.bsky.social•90 days ago

I won’t lie. The first time we met in Portland I did find you a little intimidating but that was because I didn’t know you yet.

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

Could you articulate what was intimidating? No pressure I'm just trying to understand people's perceptions. 🥰

saccm.bsky.social•90 days ago

Of course. So I remember seeing you at the booth, and I was chatting with Danny & Jason. You looked right at us, and it was your eyes that gave us this intimidating yet enticing look. It was captivating but since I had no idea who you were at that point, there was some intimidation there.

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

Thank you ❤️

saccm.bsky.social•90 days ago

You’re welcome 😉😘

fisman22.bsky.social•89 days ago

Well from my limited experience at AVN and X3 I at least personally think you’re very approachable

swytypy.bsky.social•90 days ago

Having met you in person, I can confirm you’re as approachable and friendly as anyone I’ve ever met. You were so easy to talk with that everything I try to come up with to describe you sounds cliche.

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

🥹❤️

mjmgop.bsky.social•90 days ago

Hmmm 🤔 I don’t see it. Definitely look approachable. In the sense you won’t rip someone’s head off.

justferfuun33.bsky.social•90 days ago

It's the glasses and perfect figure, if you're smiling I would definitely chat you up (if you seemed to enjoy the conversation) but take the smile away and you look like a very serious business woman who might not appreciate chatter. The consequences of being a perfect girl next door. ❤️‍🔥

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

That's fascinating, thank you! I'm enjoying hearing everyone's perceptions 🥰

justferfuun33.bsky.social•90 days ago

You're welcome. Hope it came through as the compliment that I intended ❤️

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

It did! 😁

alanlxx.bsky.social•90 days ago

You come across as really cool, that's pretty intimidating if you don't know that person

dirtyjacklava.bsky.social•90 days ago

Probably because you’re famous. True story: my friend Victoria, who had just gotten in the biz, met you in a restroom at Exxxotica and you both had a nice conversation, but she didn’t realize who you were til later and she said: “Gosh, she was so cool!” 😃

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

Omg I love that, hug her for me 🥰🫂

dirtyjacklava.bsky.social•90 days ago

I will!

zzachammer.bsky.social•90 days ago

I think once we get to know you ur not but the combo of beauty and internal strength can be in the beginning 🖤

alexxxcoal.bsky.social•90 days ago

I've definitely heard this explanation! Thank you ❤️

avillani89.bsky.social•89 days ago

I'm sure in person you're approachable. On social media you seem larger than life sometimes

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