Even as someone that's not ace I feel this way a lot of the time. When I'm with a partner my enjoyment comes from them being pleased more than the actual sex though.
I totally get this. I tend to dive under the commonly accepted surface to see what all there is, only to find a lot more possibilities for exploration. Like how neurophilia is often just seen as things like brain surgery or mind control when it can be an extension of mental health awareness.
its how i feel to be fair. i got a mare she got mega boobs mega cock mega balls . aannnnddd..... i love rp slice of life.... no sex or such. just biggie be wholesome.
Once I blindfolded, ear-pluged, and wrapped a boy in plastic and duct tape. Then I sat nearby and played sudoku on my phone for an hour before cutting him free. He immensely enjoyed it and I was happy to provide.
I always feel like I have to be the zero-libido ace archetype when I'm speaking with people IRL because how the fuck would I explain this to a normal person.
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I wanna comfort my litany of big, soft beloved favorite characters and hug them, and kiss them, and seeing their smile…
Sitting here in my little corner making fictional characters kith.
:3
:3c
>:3c
….whimpers cutely,
Plush friends are such joy
plushie critter bringing fun and enjoyment.
just a lil pic callibrated to annihilate 10 kinks at once... as a treat
CW: VERY Pregnant character
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being demi ace myself, it perfectly describes me
There is like, a purity to that lmao
I feel this so much!
Especially since I came off spirolactone because I didn't like how it was messing with my mind
[struggling with horny yet wanting to just be cuddled, with -some- kink as a treat]
Then there’s asexuals but romantics and that I don’t understand well.
No sex but still have a partner? How is it different than a friend?